In fact, the woman that men miss most is like this

time:2022-12-02 23:43:10 source:chloeaktas.com author:Single woman
In fact, the woman that men miss most is like this

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: From the Internet "What kind of woman is the most memorable for men?" I saw such a question on the Internet two days ago. Some people say: "The woman a man can't forget the most is his first love, because that is the perfect white moonlight in his heart." Some people say: "The woman a man can't forget must be the most beautiful and best-looking ex in his life, because there is no such thing as a When I meet a better one, I never forget it.” Some people also said, “The woman that men remember the most is actually the woman who gives the most, because the more you give, the more you can’t let go.” In fact, they are all right. , have their own reasons, but these answers do not say the key. It's easy to know the answer, but only by knowing the cause can we truly prescribe the right medicine. In fact, the woman that men miss most is like this. 1. The woman that a man misses most is a woman full of mystery. Some girls always feel that when you love someone, you should be unreserved, open your heart and heart, treat each other with complete honesty, and let the other party understand you 100%. In fact, there is nothing wrong with thinking this way, but girls who do this often quickly make men lose interest. For a couple, sharing the bits and pieces of life with each other, while sweet, can also accelerate the loss of mystery and attraction. In fact, the woman a man loves most is a woman with a sense of mystery. An American fashion magazine conducted the survey on 500 men aged 25 to 30. Which of the following people do you think inspires your curiosity and interest the most? 1. The kind and lovely American girl next door. 2. Passionate French sexy girl. 3. Gentle and considerate Japanese housewife. 4. The mysterious and enchanting wife of the Arab sheikh The results showed that about 70% of the men chose the fourth answer, the wife of the mysterious and enchanting Arab sheikh. These men feel that when Arab women go out, they always wrap themselves up tightly, except for a pair of eyes, you can't see other places at all, which is too imaginative, with that layer of mystery The women under the veil make these men more curious and have more desire to explore. In fact, how mysterious a woman is, often represents how much heartbeat the man will have. The reason why men never forget those women who fall in love at first sight is because they don't know that woman, that woman is unknown and mysterious, so men yearn for it. Men are born adventurers. What they like is to explore the unknown world, because all these unknowns can make them feel more satisfied and challenged. In "Ode to Joy", when Wang Baichuan first caught up with Fan Shengmei, he showed all kinds of hospitality. After all, this was the white moonlight he couldn't get before. But when Fan Shengmei completely exposed her character weaknesses and her family of origin, Wang Baichuan backed away, even disgusted. For women, even if they love another man, they cannot be completely honest with each other. They should maintain a certain degree of mystery, and then maintain the freshness of the long-lasting relationship. The sense of mystery stimulates the desire to explore, and the desire to explore makes him want to know more, so that your chances of contact will increase in disguise. The more time you spend in contact, the better your relationship will naturally become. People are fascinated by women who are indecisive. Women want to firmly attract a man, let him put curiosity and desire on you. So how can a woman remain mysterious all the time? In fact, reading a lot is the best way for a woman to stay mysterious. A woman who knows how to listen and has a rich spiritual world, is always novel and interesting, and is proficient in various types of topics, must be full of mystery in the eyes of men. 2. The woman that men miss most is the woman who gives them freedom. I like a sentence very much: "I love you, and you are free." Men are afraid of being controlled, so the more women control, the more men run away. The more a woman dominates a man in a relationship, the more he will be bored by him. Boys can easily feel a strong sense of control and suffocation in this anxious atmosphere. Teacher Wu Zhihong once said: "Love is the replication of parent-child relationship." When a man grows up, his subconscious will take him to find a woman like his mother, because this can make him feel dependent and secure. But they resisted being controlled. Just as children dislike being controlled by their parents, men dislike being controlled by women. The relationship a man loves most must be free. I love you and you are free. This is the relationship that men seek. What men like is the kind of woman who seems to get it, but actually doesn't fully get it. The more detached women are, the more men can't let go. Many people think that being with a person is like glue, and it is best to be tired of being together every day. Because they feel that the time for two people to be together is really limited, they try to be together when they have time. But in fact, the longer the two stick together, the less they like each other. If you stay away from this method, there will often be an ambiguous relationship. Ambiguity is something that you can't see or touch. Only two people can feel it, and only two people can understand this kind of affection. Ambiguity is a kind of regulator, which can make people think about it, can make people have sustenance, and can make people refreshed. After all, it is good to have someone who appreciates you. For a woman, no matter how much you love him, don't think of him as your whole world. When some women fall in love, they will regard the other party as their everything, and will want to keep revolving around each other. This will cause her to have no life of her own and focus only on men. Then men think that they are controlled and supervised, and they will naturally be disliked by men. A woman who knows how to relax and control her distance is always fresh in the eyes of men. 3. The woman that a man misses most is a woman with a "self". They all say: "A woman with a self makes men fascinated and scared." Because before you can love someone, you have to learn to love yourself first. If you don't love yourself or accept yourself, how can others love you. In a relationship, many women think that they have given everything and exhausted all their strength, but they only get cold eyes from the other party. Why is this? Because they don't love themselves, they don't have a self. Their "efforts" revolve around "husbands", and their whole body exudes the aura of "don't abandon me, I can't live without you". Then their husbands are "completely safe", who cares about someone who "will not leave me no matter what"? Women with ego know how to refuse, they have their own principles and bottom lines, and dare to say no. It is also their rejection that makes men love them even more. Kawabata Yasunari wrote in "The Sound of the Mountain": "A woman must be different from other women in order to attract men." Because most women do not understand rejection, and they become a special existence , naturally attracting attention. Girls should not court men, but learn to make him willing to give you girls your sense of security. It comes from how much value you can create, whether you have the skills to create an ideal life, your bank card balance, your resistance The ability to take risks and whether your heart is full of these indicators, when you have all this, you will naturally have the confidence to say no to everything, and then choose what you like. Always put your own feelings first, and don't do things that make you feel uncomfortable in order to please each other. Only in this way can you truly become a woman that men will never forget. ——END Topic of the day: "Do you think it's right?"

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