If you want to get a woman, you need to be "cold" to her in three aspects, don't believe it

time:2022-10-02 03:55:19 source:chloeaktas.com author:Housewife
If you want to get a woman, you need to be "cold" to her in three aspects, don't believe it

Text / Ye Feifei yff picture / From the Internet I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional tutor, who writes heartfelt emotional words, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort. In reality, many men think that as long as they are passionate about women and willing to pay, they can impress women. In fact, this kind of thinking is not correct. If you want a woman to open up to you, you can't blindly pay, let alone "lick" blindly. Many times, you need to maintain your dignity, know how to advance and retreat freely, not only have the attitude and action of loving her, but also need to be indifferent to her. In this way, she will look up to you, will not call you back and forth, so she cares about you more. If you depend on a woman for everything and give for her without bottom line, in the end, she may not cherish you, but will disdain you. Therefore, if a man wants to successfully pursue a woman he likes, he also needs to learn some skills to control a woman, so as to quickly shorten the distance between each other and develop an intimate relationship. After all, if you want to get a woman, you need to be "cold" to her in three aspects, don't believe it.

1. When a woman makes unreasonable demands, alienate her appropriately

When a man pursues a woman, he must stick to his own principles and bottom line , Don't break through the bottom line easily, so as to maintain your dignity. If you can give up even your dignity in order to please a woman, then a woman will definitely not look at you, she will only think that a man like you is too weak and not worthy of trust. Therefore, when a woman makes unreasonable demands on you, don't agree easily, lest you pay for her endlessly in the future. At this time, you can completely cool her down and alienate her properly, but it will make her think about your good. Men can't meet women's demands without any bottom line. Don't let women have a natural sense of superiority, which can easily make you lose your dignity. For example, a male colleague in the office likes a girl, and in order to please her, he spends all his money every month. He pays for the girl's daily expenses, which is not enough. Every time the two go shopping, she will buy clothes, bags, or other things she likes, all of which are paid by male colleagues. In front of a girl, a male colleague has never had his own opinion. He does what she says, and he never refuses some unreasonable demands of a girl. I thought that I would be able to be with her smoothly in this way, but the girl later fell in love with another man, and all the time and money that the male colleague spent wasted. Therefore, to pursue a woman, you can't pay blindly, but you must pay attention to some strategies. When you should pay, don't be stingy, but you must also know how to refuse some unreasonable demands of women. When a woman often makes unreasonable demands, you should not continue to pay, indifferent to her, and properly distanced, and she will see your contribution and read your goodness. This is the skill to impress women.

Secondly, if she finds out that she is in a relationship with the opposite sex, you must re-examine the relationship

A man can love and accommodate a woman, but he cannot condone a woman. If you have two minds about your feelings, you should pay attention. For example, if she often interacts with other people of the opposite sex, ignores your feelings, and has no basic respect for you, then you can't pay blindly. At this time, you need to re-examine this relationship to see if the two sides are properly together, and whether the relationship can continue. When you have this attitude, women will value you and give you the respect you deserve. If she has you in her heart, she will naturally cut off contact with other people of the opposite sex. On the contrary, she may leave you, and you don't have to bother. In fact, men should not be too humble in their relationships, and because you are a man, you need to unconditionally please women. Although men need to take the initiative, but you don't have to please. If you want to be looked up by women, you need to have your own confidence. If you are too weak and see a woman interacting with other men of the opposite sex, you will act impulsive, and even try to please her in a more humble way, begging her not to leave you. Then, the final result is likely to be that women don't care about you more and more, she thinks that you must be her, and she will make trouble with you more unreasonably. Therefore, if a man wants to get a woman, he needs to maintain a principle, that is, he has enough dignity in his relationship, and he needs a woman to be dedicated to his relationship. When you find that a woman can't do this, you don't have to force it. If a woman can't let you go, she will naturally come back when she sees your attitude.

Third, when a woman keeps asking you for money, don't be accustomed to her

interacting with women, men need to pay for her, but you need to pay There is a degree. In order to impress a woman's heart, it is necessary to give her red envelopes and gifts, or to create a sense of ritual in life. However, if a woman keeps asking you for money, then you have to pay attention and don't get used to her. For example, a woman always asks you to borrow money, and even asks you to hand over all the money to her, wanting you to show your sincerity. At this time, you can't completely listen to her opinion. Although loving someone requires action, you cannot use money to prove your sincerity in the action of loving her. If any relationship is mixed with a lot of calculations, the relationship will not be pure, and the relationship will be difficult to last. In fact, the idea of ​​a woman asking you to use money to prove your sincerity is wrong in itself and goes against the original intention of love. A woman who truly loves you will not blindly demand from you, she knows how to give with you. On the contrary, a woman doesn't love you that much, or just uses you as a backup, and she is likely to take it from you. Such a woman, you don't have to be so enthusiastic, let alone humble to please. Once you find that your feelings are not sincere, you must know how to let go. In fact, if you want to get a woman, a man must not "lick", sometimes your attitude is a little colder, but it will make women think that you are not simple. As for how to be indifferent to a woman, this degree is very important. Within a reasonable range, you can pay for her wholeheartedly. Once it exceeds your bottom line and tolerance, you should not pay blindly. Especially when a woman keeps asking you for something, you can't get used to her, keep your dignity, and know how to advance and retreat, so that women can look up to you. Ye Feifei yff's emotional message: In conclusion, to get a woman, you need to be "cold" to her in three aspects: when a woman makes unreasonable demands, she should be properly alienated; if she finds out that she is in a relationship with the opposite sex, it is necessary to re-examine the relationship; When a woman keeps asking you for money, don't get used to her. When a man communicates with a woman, he can understand these skills and maintain his dignity at all times. I believe that it will make women look up to you. In short, to pursue a woman, you can't pay blindly, but you must pay attention to some ways of getting along. When you love her, you have to love her hard, but when she has plans for you or her mind is not on you, you also need to know how to advance and retreat. If you are too simple and lose your dignity in order to please women, the ending may not be good. I hope that men can have some insight and find a suitable way to get along with women. I believe that the relationship will be more harmonious and the relationship will be more stable and long-lasting. END Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on creation and sharing in the emotional field, use emotions to communicate your heart and my heart, I hope you and I get to know each other here, please follow me if you like.

(Responsible editor:Divorced women)

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