A woman who is not tired has three life states

time:2022-10-02 03:35:35 source:chloeaktas.com author:A solitary woman
A woman who is not tired has three life states

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: From the Internet "What is a woman who is not tired?" I saw such a question on the Internet two days ago. Some people say: "Women who are not tired often marry well, and they are not tired when they have money." Some people say: "Women who are not tired often have a good family background, because their parents help them, and they feel at ease." Some people also say: "Women who live without fatigue often don't have big pursuits and dreams. They are content and happy, and naturally they are not tired." Although the above statements have certain truths, the author thinks that they did not mention the key point. As Yu Minhong once said in the book "May Your Youth Live Up to Your Dreams": "Someone loves, has something to do, and looks forward to". In this regard, I take it for granted. In fact, a woman who is not tired of living has three living conditions. A woman who is not tired of life is loved by someone. When we were young, we all had a dream: "I once dreamed of walking the world with a sword and seeing the prosperity of the world." But since we met love, we felt that the rivers and lakes were too dangerous, so we no longer pursued, and chose one person to die in the world. Live a lifetime in love. Just like at the foot of Zhongnan Mountain, the tomb of the living dead, the Condor Heroes, disappeared in the rivers and lakes. A woman who is loved by someone has a harbor for her soul and feelings, a sense of belonging, and naturally she will not be tired. Because there are people who love, there are people who care about them all their lives, even if they encounter difficulties and obstacles, there are people who support each other and stand together through thick and thin. You have to believe that there must be someone in this world who is love, and you must be worthy of being loved. Just like your parents love you, you must be loved. Women who don't believe they can be loved will never be loved in their entire lives. Because she doesn't look down on herself, others naturally won't look down on her. Just as you can't like someone who doesn't like yourself and doesn't have confidence. You may sympathize with him and understand him, but you cannot really like him. Everyone has their own energy field, if your energy field emits positive energy, then you are more likely to attract positive people, and if your energy field is negative, then you are more likely to attract Come to negative people. A woman's state of mind is very important to her, and can often determine her future life is good or bad. There is such a statistic that the average person survives in a non-positive and non-negative life state, and the percentage of this population accounts for 80%. There are only 20% of people with a positive attitude, and this 20% of the world's population occupies 80% of the world's resources. Positive people tend to love themselves. As Tu Lei said: "Seven points of love is enough, please love yourself for the remaining three points." Before loving someone, love yourself first. If a woman spends all her love on a man and puts all her attention on a man, it will often end in tragedy. Because the easier to get things, the less people cherish, the more they will feel cheap. Women love men so much that they are often only taken for granted by men. True love must be evenly matched, not always unilateral. Any kind of love that is unilaterally paid to maintain is actually fragile and vulnerable. Only those who love themselves can be truly loved. A woman who is not tired, has something to do. If a woman has nothing to do and is too idle, not only will her life not be easy, but it will be a disaster. If a woman has nothing to do, she is in her spare time. Easiest to overthink. Because I am too busy, I will have a lot of time to think wildly, to worry about gains and losses, to be confused, and to lose myself in the inexplicable emotions of constantly cutting and chaotic. Women are too busy, and even lead to serious psychological problems. As soon as I have time, I will think about things and think about things, and all kinds of negative energy will come, and I will gradually become depressed, self-doubt, and my temper will become worse and worse, which will lead to psychological problems. In reality, people often say, why do I still feel empty and tired even though I have something to do? In fact, in the final analysis, you don’t like what you are doing now, or you are resistant, you are eager for success, you feel that your life value has not been realized, and your greatest talent has not yet been brought into play, so you are too anxious. For the future, you don't need to worry too much, but you should slow down, find something you like, and grow down on the ground, because only in this way can you truly get what you want. Women don't have to be strong women, but they must have a career of their own. It is not necessarily a responsibility for a woman to earn money, but it is definitely a dignity. A woman's economic ability determines the superstructure. A state that a woman needs most is independence, whether it is spiritual independence or economic independence. It is better for a woman to rely on herself than anyone else. Only by themselves can women have the confidence to face the setbacks in marriage and life. When you have the capital yourself, you have the right to choose your life. Only by surviving in the world by your own ability can you reflect your life value and find the greatest meaning of life. Many people live too tired, not whether they live a good or bad life, but have too much time to do nothing, too much free time, so they have time to worry about gains and losses, and have time to think and ponder over and over again. People who are mediocre are actually too idle. Women who are not tired of life often have expectations. Romain Rolland said: "There is only one true heroism in the world, that is, after recognizing the truth of life, still loving life." A woman who is not tired in reality must love life and have expectations for the future. Just as flowers bloom and fall, different people have different opinions. The flowers bloom, and the flowers will fall. The important thing is to feel the beauty when the flowers bloom. If you give up your expectations simply because you are afraid of disappointment, you have to say that this is a kind of strategic weakness. A person who loves life must be positive about the future. They believe that everything is going in a good direction. Even if he lives very firmly at the moment, he can still have fun in the pain, and then cross the sea of ​​misery with his partner through thick and thin. As Oscar Wilde said: "We all live in the gutter, but some people still look up to the stars." Although the world is full of ugliness, one should not give up all pursuit of beauty. Beautiful and pure or other meaningful things, the extension of the starry sky can be very rich. They don't complain, they don't regret, they believe that everything is the best arrangement. "Heaven will assign great responsibilities to these people, and they must first suffer their minds and wills, labor their muscles and bones, starve their bodies and skin, and deplete their bodies." In fact, everything in the world has its two sides, and whether things are good or bad only depends on the angle you look at. Just as Sai Weng loses his horse, how can you know that it is not a blessing. Life is not only about living in front of you, but also poetry and distance. Even though the ground was full of sixpence, there were still people looking up at the moon. Only when you are full of expectations for life can you have the motivation to go on. When you make your expectations come true through hard work, you will increase your self-confidence little by little, make your life happier, and people will be happier. You can only hope to move forward if you do what you expect. Finally, like that song, may the world be beautiful and interlocked with you! ——END Topic of the day: "Do you think it's right?"

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