The leftover woman in the north said: Living together for two years, her boyfriend came to the door empty-handed for the first time, can such a person date?

time:2022-12-02 03:05:28 source:chloeaktas.com author:Working women
The leftover woman in the north said: Living together for two years, her boyfriend came to the door empty-handed for the first time, can such a person date?

Ask for advice: I have been with my boyfriend Zhang Yang for two years, and we have been living together for the past two years. He's a stingy, and he's usually stingy with me. On the 11th holiday, I took him home. This was his first visit, and my parents had prepared in advance. But what I didn't expect was that he was empty-handed. I am very disappointed. Excuse me, is such a person worth dating? To clarify doubts: It is not a bad thing for men to be stingy. Relatively speaking, stingy men know how to restrain themselves. When they do certain behaviors, they will make necessary judgments in time because of their "stingy" habit, which is a good thing. On the basis of mutual respect, if you are appropriately stingy, you will not buy things you shouldn't buy, and don't spend money you shouldn't spend. Such a man actually knows how to live and what he needs. Therefore, when girls associate with boys, don't just use a "stingy" to define whether a man is worthy. Because you might miss the right person. Of course, this is not to say that being mean is necessarily a virtue. During the relationship between boyfriend and girlfriend, men should spend money for women. When necessary, you should mainly buy some favorite items for girls, which is both a need and a link to maintain communication with each other. If a man is not plucked, it can only show that he does not love women enough, or he does not know how to get along at all. The boyfriend's first visit has at least two important meanings: First, let the parents meet and have a preliminary understanding. Second, show respect for each other's parents. Therefore, the first visit is of great significance. Whether it is a boy or a girl, they should attach great importance to it and show due sincerity and attitude. Bringing a decent gift to the other's parents is a matter of course and basic courtesy. It is obviously inappropriate for a boyfriend to come to the door empty-handed for the first time. Not only is it rude to your girlfriend's parents, but it leaves a bad impression. We don't know why your boyfriend came to the door empty-handed, it may be because his emotional intelligence is not high and he does not understand the world. We would rather believe it was these reasons than that he was mean. If it's just because he doesn't understand the world, I think it's understandable and given a chance. After all, every mature person comes after experiencing the world. There is no one who understands everything and is proficient in everything from the beginning. If it's because he's stingy, it really needs to be considered carefully. A man is so stingy that he doesn't even want to spend money when he goes to his girlfriend's house for the first time. I'm afraid we can't expect him to give you a happy life in the future. Whether such a man is worth interacting with requires you to fully understand and judge him. One thing cannot judge a person, nor can it define a person. For a man, be more patient, have more information, try to judge his character, habits and character, and then judge and choose according to your own needs, in order to find the right man. When encountering something, don't rush to a conclusion, and don't give up any opportunity to observe and test a person. It is better to hold the initiative in your hands and use it at the right time. I wish you happiness. (The picture is taken from the Internet, the picture and text have nothing to do with it.)

(Responsible editor:Divorced women)

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