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After two years of marriage, I feel that my wife is ugly and can't take it. Is there a psychological problem?

time：2022-10-02 04:40:12 source：chloeaktas.com author：Single woman

After two years of marriage, I feel that my wife is ugly and can't take it. Is there a psychological problem?

Emotional narrative: My wife Zhang Lina and I have been married for two years, and I feel more and more that he is ugly and can't get him. Every time I have dinner with my friends, I would rather bring my female colleagues to the party than my wife. Is there something wrong with my psychology? To clarify doubts: This question can be analyzed from three perspectives: 1. Did you choose your own daughter-in-law? Normally, legal couples choose themselves. The spouse you choose, at least you recognize her before you get married, and she also has a shining point that fascinates you. So, why do you think she can't take it now? Is it because the beauty she once gave you has disappeared over time, or is it that you have a new purpose? Either way, you need to understand that the relationship between husband and wife is not just a matter of personal image, but more of a responsibility. She has a responsibility to you, and you have a responsibility to her. You must know how to respect, love, protect her, protect her image, and protect her self-esteem. If it's because you have a higher awareness, or newer goals, you should also treat your daughter-in-law as the only object. Otherwise, you risk being unfaithful to your lover. Second, your so-called "she looks ugly", is it your personal subjective judgment, or does other people have such a perception? You think she's ugly and can't be taken out. In the end, it's still a matter of face. Men are all good-faced, and they all hope that their image will be recognized by everyone, and they hope that the women they lead out are outstanding in all aspects and better than others. This is okay, and it is considered normal psychology. However, have you ever thought about whether your so-called "she looks ugly" is your personal judgment, or does other people think the same way? Has anyone mentioned to you and cared about her image? If there is, you should instead strive to maintain the image of the daughter-in-law in front of everyone and protect the daughter-in-law. This is a man's obligation. If not, obviously you personally think your daughter-in-law looks ugly. We want to ask, do you despise her? Or, are there other so-called good-looking girls who have made you addicted? Ask your heart more, is it because your heart is overflowing, restless, or other reasons? Don't rely on your daughter-in-law for everything, she is innocent. 3. What exactly do you need? Families with daughters-in-law are happy. According to relevant statistics, many people are still single. Therefore, you should cherish the family and happiness that your daughter-in-law brings to you. It doesn't matter if a man has good face, but the real face is actually having a happy family. If you only care about the face between friends and ignore the feelings of your daughter-in-law, you are wasting face instead. Cherish your daughter-in-law more and make your small family a complete and warm one. This is the real "face". Young people, frankly speaking, it is indeed a psychological problem that you dislike your daughter-in-law for being ugly. There are various images of women, each with its own advantages and disadvantages. Married men should cherish what they have and protect those who can accompany you. This is the real life. Don't look at the height of this mountain, and don't covet the good image of other women. Comparing your lover with her image is superficial, and you will get nothing in the end. If you feel that there is something wrong with your daughter-in-law that needs to be improved, you can help her correct it together. Otherwise, you will lose the responsibility of a man.

(Responsible editor：Divorced women)

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