The leftover woman in the north said: My boyfriend thinks I am ugly, but he is even uglier, should I tell the truth?

time:2022-12-03 00:06:14 source:chloeaktas.com author:Graduate girl
The leftover woman in the north said: My boyfriend thinks I am ugly, but he is even uglier, should I tell the truth?

Ask: I am a North drifter, from Jiaozuo, Henan, 31 years old this year. I've been dating my boyfriend Zhang Liang for a year, and my life is uneventful, and I follow the steps every day. However, he always said that I was ugly. In fact, he himself was not that good. Should I tell him the truth? To clarify doubts: You ask this question, in the final analysis, should you mind if your boyfriend calls you ugly. So, should you care about your boyfriend's attitude? In fact, the problem is very simple: divide the situation. If you and your boyfriend have a very stable relationship, you must have reached the stage of mutual understanding and tolerance, and what you say is not so important. Well, it shouldn't matter at this time. After all, from the point of view of romance, many words are the opposite, such as "don't" is "want", "you are ugly" is "you are so beautiful". Ordinary happiness is that even if it is a joke, you can feel the taste of love. In a happy moment, enhance the stickiness between each other and deepen the nutrition of love. If your relationship is still unstable, and you are still in the stage of understanding and testing each other, it is extremely important to build your own image and maintain each other's image. At this time, it is very likely that you will take a word from the other party to your heart. For example, if your boyfriend says you are ugly, you will really feel that you are ugly, which will lead to inferiority complex and even revenge. So, what is your reality? Are you ugly or not? In contrast, both of you have a steel scale in your heart, and you both understand what your situation is. Beauty and ugliness is not a standard to measure a person, nor can it determine the quality of love, but getting along well is. Although your boyfriend always says you are ugly, but he still gets along with you to this day, this is the quality of your love. Therefore, you should rather believe that he is just talking about it, and don't take it too seriously. Otherwise, it will be too tiring to get along. As for whether he looks good or not, this is not an important factor. Just make sure he's someone you deserve. If because he said you are ugly, you go to say he is ugly, but it becomes two adults playing children's game, just like two small children, full of innocence like you come and go Childlike, that's part of being in love. So, there is no question of telling the truth about this. As long as you are happy and feel that you can get along well. At the end of the day, you should still understand a basic fact, that is: beauty and ugliness does not determine the quality of love, and mutual understanding and tolerance will allow you to get along for a long time. No matter what the other party says about you, you have to find out what the other party means? In the end is to demean you, or to ridicule you, or to add to the fun of love? When two people get along, the fun needs to be created by themselves, and more ways to get along can make love more beautiful. Things speak louder than words, and arguments for words are moot. The reality is that the two of you are still in a normal relationship, which is the most qualitative reality. What does it matter what he says? If you really feel that his words hurt you and make you uncomfortable, you can bring it up to him and let him pay attention. Your boyfriend, telling the truth a few more words can't hurt anyone, but can increase their feelings for each other. (The picture is taken from the Internet, the picture and text have nothing to do)

(Responsible editor:A solitary woman)

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