Bei Piao's self-reported: I broke up after living together for two years, I found my ex-boyfriend to get back together, and was ridiculed by him, what should I do?

time:2022-12-02 03:25:47 source:chloeaktas.com author:Graduate girl
Bei Piao's self-reported: I broke up after living together for two years, I found my ex-boyfriend to get back together, and was ridiculed by him, what should I do?

Beidian asking for help: I ​​am a Beidian from Zhumadian City, Henan Province. My ex-boyfriend and I met in Beijing, and he was quite good. We moved in together shortly after we met. I thought I had found happiness. Who knows, after living together for two years, he proposed to break up. Some time ago, I went to find him to get back together and was ridiculed by him. She said that I had nothing to attract him. Can you tell me what to do? To clarify doubts: girl, you are so stupid. To love so humbly doesn't make any sense. He ridiculed you because he looked down on you, you must understand this. As far as this matter is concerned, you need to think about three questions: 1. Why did you break up with him? Since there is a reunion, there must be a breakup. Presumably, before the breakup, you also had an enviable relationship between you. Whether this relationship leaves you with good thoughts or regrets, at least it has passed, and you should choose to let it go. If you really can't let it go, you should ask yourself, why did you break up at that time? Is there a hurdle that can't be overcome between each other? Or is it just a moment of youthful exuberance? Find the reason for the breakup and find the motivation to persist. 2. Do you have a corresponding emotional foundation to find him to get back together, or do you insist on wishful thinking? Normally, there is no need to reconcile after a breakup. Find a more suitable relationship for each other, in order to better achieve a better life. So why do you want to get back together? Is it because of the unrequited love, or are you unwilling? Recombination and remarriage are actually the same principle. Both parties must have love and righteousness, and both emotionally and physically and mentally can reach an agreement in order to achieve the basic conditions for recombination. If it's just your wishful thinking, or just to satisfy your unwillingness in a certain aspect, it is destined to be just you working hard and working hard. Feelings that are unilaterally insisted on are not true feelings. It is a deprivation of the other party's true will and does not achieve the desired effect. 3. Can his ridicule to you dilute your admiration for him? Apparently, he taunts you because he doesn't accept your desire to get back together. He tries to hold you back by taunting you. Since he does not accept it, there is no need to force it, and people should live more freely. However, if you have the idea of ​​getting back together, but he is unwilling to cooperate, you should ask yourself, can his ridicule and opposition dilute your admiration for him? Ask yourself what you really think, and you will be better able to stick to your attitude. If you can figure out the above three questions, you must know what to do. But we still want to say a few words: girl, love is sacred and great, especially the love of girls for boys, you can firmly pursue the person you want, or you can put down your face to fight for the feelings you want. However, if the person isn't the right fit, or if you've ever had an inappropriate encounter, you should let go when it's time to let go. In this world, there is no shortage of excellent boys, and there is no shortage of boys who can give girls enough sincere love. As long as you are good enough and sincere enough, you can find better boys. As a girl, don't be promiscuous or hang yourself on a tree, this is the best attitude towards love. If you are interested in finding an ex-boyfriend to get back together, it means that you are also full of confidence in love. In this case, why not reconcile with yourself and find a better relationship? Giving yourself to someone more suitable will give you far more than taunting you. Good luck.

(Responsible editor:Rich young woman)

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