It's not hard to see whether a man "really loves you" or "want to sleep with you"

time:2022-10-02 04:37:37 source:chloeaktas.com author:Rich young woman
It's not hard to see whether a man "really loves you" or "want to sleep with you"

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: From the Internet "How to judge whether a man really loves you or just wants to sleep with you?" Two days ago, I saw such a question on the Internet. Someone said: "A man who really loves you must want to sleep with you, because your every move is a fatal temptation for him. But a man who only wants to sleep with you doesn't necessarily love you, he just wants to satisfy his own desires. Flirting with you!" Someone said, "If a man loves you, he also wants to sleep with you, but they will respect your decision, treat you like a treasure, and are reluctant to touch you! But if a man just wants to sleep with you, he will not respect you at all. Your thoughts, they will only force you to submit." Some people said: "The man who really loves you will not be anxious about it. Only the man who just wants to sleep with you will show that he can't wait." There are many disputes, each with its own reasons. In the author's opinion, if a man really loves a woman, they will never persecute a woman, and then have a relationship easily. Seeing this, some people may say that Yu Zhan'ao in the red sorghum is also true love, not that he directly occupied Jiu'er. But in fact, there are too few people like Yu Zhanao. He dares to love and hate, and he knows the righteousness. It is no exaggeration to say that he is a hero of a generation. How many men can do this. In fact, it is not difficult to see whether a man really loves you or wants to sleep with you. The man who loves you is good for you in the long run. And people who just want to sleep with you will only be nice to you for a short time. The man who really loves you wants a long-term stable relationship, while the man who just wants to sleep with you only wants a short-term exciting relationship. As a result, the two types of men tend to behave differently to women. Men who pursue long-term stable relationships are not in a hurry for women, because the world is still long in the future, they can slowly cultivate the relationship, and then everything will naturally follow. Their good for women is a long-term and stable, long-lasting continuous effort. And men who only pursue short-term stimulation, they are often very anxious, because time does not wait for anyone, and they do not have so much time and energy to spend on a woman, so they always appear impatient. They are especially eager to have a relationship with each other. In order to get each other, they often do whatever they can. Their most common method is to bombard them with continuous sweet words. Some even threaten to break up and love, and then force women to make choices. Their behavior often makes women not feel loved, but only feels pressure and suffocation. In reality, they often break the status quo by cohabiting before marriage, and then analyze the benefits of cohabitation for you, but never mention the harm and risks of cohabitation to you. They will always only think about themselves, not you. Because they often only have desire in their eyes, not love. A man who truly loves you will never force you to make a choice, they will respect everything about you, and will never make you embarrassed. The person who truly loves you has a long-term plan, while the person who wants to sleep with you has a temporary idea, and he hopes to get it as soon as possible. A man who loves you, proves his love with actions, and a man who wants to sleep with you often only promises verbally. A man who really loves you thinks about your future and future, so they will be willing to pay for you, they may not say nice things to you, but they will prove their love with actions. Because for them, they really want you better, so they will act for you. And a man who just wants to sleep with you, they only have a short-term desire for you, they have never thought about the future with you, they are destined to leave sooner or later from the moment they contact you, so they are unwilling to pay for you in their hearts , the more they pay, the more difficult it will be for them to leave in the future. They are giants in words, but dwarfs in action. Their sweet words are always blurted out, but they never fulfill their promises. In addition, men who love you only have you in their hearts, so they will give you their whole heart. But the men who just want to sleep with you have many women in their hearts, so naturally they won't pay for you. They are the men who vowed to be the sea king, how can they stay with a woman for life, in order to let themselves leave in the future, they will only choose the form that pays the least. And giving women verbal promises and sweet words is the cheapest way. No matter how nice it is, as long as you don't realize it, you don't need to pay anything. Everyone has a "loss aversion" mentality. The more people who pay, the more they can't do without it. Because they are afraid of losses and fear that their efforts will be wasted, they will maintain this relationship more seriously. So the man who just wants to sleep with you doesn't want to pay you at all. The man who loves you will be in front of you in times of crisis, but the man who just wants to sleep with you will only be behind you in times of crisis. I have seen such a trick show on the Internet: "A man and his wife were out for a walk at night, and when they passed an alley, a strong man with a knife and a clown mask suddenly rushed out of the alley. Seeing this scene, the man He immediately threw off his wife's hand and ran away without looking back, seeing this scene, his wife stayed where she was." Do you say this man loves this woman? The answer must be no, this man does not love his wife. Perhaps seeing this, some people will say: This is an instinctive reaction of human beings, and it cannot be regarded as true at all. But in fact, for a man, if he really loves a woman, he will never abandon the woman and run away by himself no matter how scared he is. It is said that adversity reveals the truth. Only those who can stand up to adversity are true love, and those who cannot stand up to adversity must not be true love. A friend once told me his story: "His daughter is very beautiful and her education is not bad. At that time, there were several suitors, some men who he thought were very good and highly respected, but in the end his daughter He did not choose the man he liked, but married the suitor with the worst conditions that he did not like. My friend was very pleased with the choice of her daughter. In the words of my friend: "In adversity, we will see the truth, see you after a long time. People's hearts, he is wrong. "That year, my friend was sick. When she first got sick, several of her daughter's suitors came to the hospital to see them, and they made various promises to ask them for help if they had any problems. But later, when the friend's condition worsened, those suitors made promises. The suitor disappeared, and only the suitor with the worst condition remained to help and take care of the friend every day. You can see at a glance whether a man loves a woman or not, when he sees danger, the man's attitude and actions. I agree with this. For women, men who take the initiative to help you when they encounter danger and difficulties , must love you deeply, and the man who can't find you when he encounters a problem must not love you, he just wants to sleep with you. A man who loves you is always by your side when you need it, And people who want to sleep with you need you to appear. They only want to sleep with your man, and they will even sacrifice you for their own interests. Just like that sentence: "Husbands and wives are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes. "—END Today's topic: "Do you think it's accurate? "

(Responsible editor:Housewife)

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