The "good man" in the eyes of women is like this

time:2022-12-03 00:29:32 source:chloeaktas.com author:Rich young woman
The "good man" in the eyes of women is like this

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: From the Internet "What is a good man in the eyes of a woman"? I saw this question on the internet yesterday. Some people say: "A good man is a man who is handsome and rich, because such a man is the best man." This kind of man loves the most." Some people say: "A good man is a man with a good character and even outstanding talent." Although they are very reasonable, these statements are too broad and difficult to understand vividly. . With the level of insight and knowledge of most people, it is impossible to accurately judge whether a man is a good man. The so-called character and other characteristics will change. Whether a man is a good man depends not on what he said, but what he did. A "good man" in the eyes of women is like this! A good man in the eyes of a woman is often reassuring. Zhang Xiaoxian once said: "You can go and do your business, I have never thought that you can't. Before you do something, it is really necessary to say it, and come back and say it again, if you don't say it, I will always take care If you tell me what you're up to, I'll wait for you to come back with peace of mind." Making people feel at ease is not only a power of love, but also a responsibility. Often only a reliable good man can make a woman feel at ease. In the words of the author's mother: "At that moment, she recognized him. It was an incomparable peace of mind. Even if there were chaos outside, all she experienced was tranquility and beauty." In her mother's heart, The father who made her feel at ease was the man she thought was the best. A real good man always has something to say. He won't keep his innermost thoughts in his heart and make you overly suspicious. They will tell you directly, because only in this way can you truly feel at ease. A reassuring man can give women enough sense of security. He knows how to take the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex; he knows how to get back to you when he has time, so he won't make you anxious; if they have any problems, they will communicate in time and kill all suspicions. In the bud, because he is afraid that these will ruin your relationship. Those who leave you tossing and turning alone in the middle of the night are not destined to spend the rest of your life with you. If they cannot give you peace of mind and warmth, they cannot give you happiness. There is a line in "The World's Greatest Father" that is particularly poignant: "I used to think that the worst thing in the world is to die alone. It's not. The worst thing is to die with those who make you feel lonely." For most men, in fact, many times, he is not really busy, nor does he know that you will be worried, just because your position is not that important. I hope that one day you will meet the person who will make you feel at ease. As Shakespeare said: "One day you will find a person who will make you feel at ease, the kind of peace of mind that you have when you tie your long pants in your socks." A good man in the eyes of a woman can take her own responsibilities. They all say: "Husbands and wives are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes." In a relationship, a good man in the eyes of a woman is often able to shoulder her responsibilities. They can stand together through thick and thin, and they can share prosperity together. When the trough is low, don't give up, don't give up. Seeing this, some people may say that men are afraid of trouble, so it is instinct to avoid them. But in fact, although men are afraid of trouble, if a man really loves that woman, he will often ask for trouble. Just like the story of the author's second uncle and second aunt. The second uncle and the second aunt knew each other on a blind date. They were both intellectuals, and they were in the right households. At that time, they had just confirmed their relationship and hadn't gotten engaged. The second aunt was diagnosed with a serious illness and needed surgery. If the surgery went wrong , it requires lifelong treatment, and the surgery costs a lot of money, which the second aunt's family can't afford. At that time, the second aunt directly broke up with the second uncle, and asked him to treat her as a stranger in the future, because she did not want to drag him down. Just when everyone thought that the second uncle would give up this relationship, the second uncle resolutely took out all his savings to treat the second aunt, completely ignoring the opposition of the people around him. Before the operation, the second aunt took the second uncle's hand and asked him, "Why don't you do what I said?" The second uncle said, "Because you are the first person I love and the last one I love. Man, if you were gone, my life would be so boring." After listening to the second uncle's words, the second uncle burst into tears. Later, the second aunt's operation was very successful and completely cured, and they were happily together. In reality, people often ask me, "What is a man's responsibility?" In fact, a man's responsibility is to fulfill his responsibilities and be a good father, husband, and son. Since he has chosen everything, he must do so Responsible for life. A good man in the eyes of women has good emotional management skills. A person's life can't be smooth sailing, and when things are going well, it is often impossible to see what a person is. Only when a person faces adversity, the reaction he makes is his true disposition. A man's coping and attitude when he encounters setbacks can often reflect whether a man's mind is mature. Mature men often have their own bottom lines and principles, what to do and what not to do. They tend to have good emotional management skills in a relationship. When two people get along, they will definitely encounter various contradictions and conflicts. A good man can control his emotions, and then resolve each other's contradictions and promote the development of the relationship. Those couples quarrel, and the more they quarrel, the worse the relationship, because they do not quarrel properly. They don't know how to manage their emotions, and they just vent their emotions instead of dealing with problems. A man who can manage his emotions well will not only have a smooth relationship, but also a good career. And a man who cannot control his emotions often means that their economic level is not too high. Because men who cannot manage their emotions are often extreme people, they often make big mistakes because of impulsiveness. From a woman's point of view, a man who can control his emotions and make the relationship between the two parties get better and better is a good man. ——END Today's topic: "Do you think it's right?"

(Responsible editor:Graduate girl)

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