A woman like this marriage is not worth it

time:2022-10-02 05:25:04 source:chloeaktas.com author:Single woman
A woman like this marriage is not worth it

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: Sourced from the Internet "My husband cheated and confessed his mistake in person. His attitude was very sincere. My parents and elders advised me not to divorce, saying that my whole life would be over, and I wanted to think more about my children, but now I really It is very painful to want to get a divorce, because I no longer believe in that man, it looks disgusting, and I no longer believe that this marriage can go on happily, but after listening to my parents’ advice, I can’t bear to hurt them.” Yesterday, a reader friend Send a private message like this. When I saw this private letter, I had mixed feelings in my heart. They all say: "Just like a person drinking water, he knows whether he is cold or warm." The needle did not stick to himself, and he did not feel the same way at all. The advice of others was actually indifferent and powerless. For this friend, she should listen to her heart this time, marriage is yours, you have the right to choose, and no one can stop you. In addition, divorce itself does not actually cause more harm to children. An unfortunate family environment and a discordant parental relationship will bring more harm to children. As far as life is concerned, a woman like this marriage is not worth it. A marriage that is not respected is not for a woman. There is no perfect marriage in the world, let alone the most suitable person. The so-called good marriage is mutual respect and understanding. And if women are not respected in a marriage, then such a marriage, even if it persists, is just a tragedy. The sacrifice of one person cannot sustain the marriage of two people at all. The more a woman is willing to give, the less respect she will get from men, because the easier it is to get something, the less she will cherish it. As sung in the song: "The heart that cannot be obtained is restless, and the person who is favored will always have nothing to fear." If a man does not respect a woman, he will only regard the woman as a nanny, and he will come and go as soon as he calls it. . Men will not feel any gratitude for all the efforts of women, they will only think that those are the obligations that women should do, but if women are not perfect at any point, they will be disliked by men. Therefore, when a woman is in such a marriage, she should restrain herself from paying. As Tu Lei said: "Love a person for seven points is enough, please love yourself for the remaining three points. The one who loves more will hate, and the one who loves less will complain." A marriage that one pays is very tiring, and What makes it even more tiring is that he thinks this is what it should be! A happy marriage must go both ways. I understand your efforts, and you understand my hard work. When a woman expresses her inner thoughts, if the man still disrespects it, then such a marriage is not worth it. If you can't see a hopeful marriage, women don't want it. They all say, "There is a good husband before a good wife." If the husband is not good, then the wife will not be much better, because the husband and wife are inherently influenced by each other. A good marriage can make both husband and wife better, and a bad marriage can only make both husband and wife worse. For a woman, if the man is lazy, does not seek to make progress, gambles and drinks excessively, and still does not repent, then such a marriage is not worth it. A marriage without any hope will only make people more desperate. You thought you could change the other person with love, so you insisted foolishly, but in the end you just moved yourself, hurting others and hurting yourself. In fact, some people can't change it at all, they are used to everything. An unfortunate marriage is like the broken mirror. Even if you try to piece it together again, you can't reunite it, and it's easy to hurt your hand. The best way is not to piece it together, but just throw it away and get a new mirror. A good relationship between husband and wife is not only about caring for each other, but also growing with each other. Both parties go hand in hand to create a beautiful family. Although you have become better, I am not bad. We are evenly matched, and we are well-matched enough to be worthy of each other. In the upcoming marriage, women don't want it. It is often said: "Women are the same with whoever they marry, because they all make do with it." But in fact, it is not the same with whoever is married, which is a big difference. Even though the older generation often said that their marriage was a marriage that they chose to end, they are still happy now. Although their words are correct, they are not suitable for the current era. Because their marriages at that time were all designated marriages, and no one had to choose, so it was naturally easier to accept. Nowadays, people are in free love. Everyone can choose the life partner they want. Naturally, they will not choose the future. Once they do, they will regret it very much in the future. The upcoming marriage is too painful, the three views are different, and even the quarrel is not at the same point, the life is naturally sad. A marriage that is "coming soon" can't be replaced by happiness that is "coming soon". The upcoming marriage will only make you feel that life is boring, it will make you lose your enthusiasm for life, and it will become more boring. The upcoming marriage is like telling the ox to play the piano and the chicken to the duck. He will never understand your mood, and then he will not want to communicate more and more. As you communicate less and less, you naturally become more and more distant. The scariest thing in the world is not to die alone, but to die with someone who makes you lonely. For women, a high-quality single must be far better than a low-quality marriage. Getting married is not only about living with a partner, but also requires spiritual communication. If your other half does not fit with you, it will be really painful. I hope that one day, everyone will not regard marriage as a necessity, and do not think that people must get married when they reach a certain age, work hard, and live a good life. If you find love, you will love it passionately, and when you can't find it, please love yourself. I only wish you, don't struggle with love, and be happy because of love! ——END Topic of the day: "Do you think it's right?"

(Responsible editor:Housewife)

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