Three hints that men want to break up, women don't lie to themselves

time:2022-10-02 04:59:17 source:chloeaktas.com author:Girl
Three hints that men want to break up, women don't lie to themselves

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: Sourced from the Internet "I have been talking with my boyfriend for a year, and I have been talking less and less recently. He always says that he is busy with work and doesn't even have time to reply to a message. For this, I respect him very much, after all, a man Career is the most important thing, but yesterday I was sick and hospitalized, and he hung up the phone because he was busy with work. I was really chilled, and I was not as important as his work." Two days ago, a reader friend sent such a private letter. When I saw this private letter, I thought for a long time. In fact, a man is always too busy with a woman, there is only one reason, that is not love, not really busy with work. Just like that sentence: "A man who loves you is always available to you, but a man who doesn't love you doesn't even have time to say a word back to you." The reason why this man is busy with this friend is not true Busy with work, but a hint of wanting to break up. This kind of behavior of men is actually cold and violent, and it is just for women to take the initiative to break up. For this reader friend, cutting off the relationship directly is the most responsible way for him. That man no longer loves you, and if he persists foolishly, he will only hurt himself even more. In reality, women often ask me: "How can I tell that a man wants to break up?" In fact, the three hints that a man wants to break up are like this, women don't lie to themselves. The cold violence of men is often a hint of breaking up. In a relationship, when a man wants to break up, he often does not express it directly with words, but suggests it with cold violence. Especially men who feel that they are sorry for women will choose this way. Because of this choice, it will reduce his guilt. The reason why they choose to be cold and violent is to force women to take the initiative to say goodbye. When the woman proposes to break up, they will brainwash themselves, and then put all the responsibility and reason on the woman, while he is relaxed. They will think like this: "You proposed the breakup, and it has nothing to do with me." The beginning of a man's cold violence is to slowly reduce his communication with you and use busyness as an excuse. I believe that many people feel deeply. When the frequency of texting or calling with you gradually decreases, it can also indicate that he wants to quietly withdraw from your life. Then your quarrels began to increase. If you think he's more and more arguing with you over silly little things, it shows that he wants to use quarrels to keep the distance between you. Even they will deliberately find a big thing to provoke you, and then have a big fight with you, so as to break up with you coldly and violently. When a man disappears after playing, he is implying that he wants to break up. They all say, "The way adults end a relationship is not quarrels and breakdowns, but a silent estrangement." This is especially true for men. It is said that a man who loves you will go anywhere in the world, but a man who does not love you will never find anyone. In this regard, I take it for granted. The man who loves you can't wait to stick by your side at any time, because they want to participate in every second of your life. The man who doesn't love you will only avoid you deliberately, and then let time forget all this. One characteristic of these men is that they never tell you the exact address of his family. Because they are afraid that you will come to them, they often love a lot of people, and naturally they will not reveal these important information about themselves. If a man deliberately conceals his home address, then the man is very likely to be such a scumbag. From the moment they approach you, they are doomed to leave and will naturally keep it a secret from you. They'll keep your home address a secret, your workplace secret, and even friends won't show you one. So when they disappear, you can't find them at all. For women, if a man cannot be found, then there is no need to look for it. Because you found it, what can you do? It doesn't make any sense at all. As Mu Xin said: "If you ask someone a question, and she doesn't answer what she asked, then she has answered it, and there is no need to ask any more." The man's avoidance and disappearance are actually breaking up with the woman. When a man proposes a lot of new plans without you, he is implying a breakup. When a man wants to break up, he will mention a lot of new plans: he wants to go to another city, he wants to change to a new job, it will take a few years to work hard in his career, or even study abroad, etc.? Everything they say is positive, but you can't participate in all this, and they don't have you in their plans. In these plans, they will distinguish the pros and cons for you, and then brazenly don't want you to wait for him, wasting your youth in vain. The purpose of what they say is not to really think about you, but to vaccinate you in advance. He is not describing your future blueprint, but is talking about himself. He no longer promises you or makes efforts, but will only persuade you to say that he can't give you happiness, and that he doesn't want you to suffer and suffer, so that you can consider new feelings. They will even say: "I love you, and you are free. If you meet a better person, then I support you in choosing that person, because as long as you are happy." I am also constantly creating a good image of myself. I don't want to break up, but I want you to be happier, and I don't want to live up to you. At this time, the woman can no longer feel the intimacy of the other party, and will only feel that the other party is as scary as a smiling tiger. When a man has these three hints to you, in fact, he doesn't love you anymore, women don't lie to themselves. A woman's sixth sense is actually quite accurate. When you've been thinking recently "is he going to break up with you", it's basically true. ——END Today's topic: "Do you think it's right"?

(Responsible editor:Rich young woman)

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