When a man doesn't love you, he can't see these three things

time:2022-12-03 00:11:41 source:chloeaktas.com author:Rich young woman
When a man doesn't love you, he can't see these three things

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: From the Internet "After a year of marriage, I don't know whether he loves me or not. We are the orders of our parents, according to the words of the matchmaker, we got married according to the son, although we live a stable life and get along harmoniously, But I still want to know whether he loves me or not, this is my biggest question about marriage." Yesterday, a reader friend sent such a private letter. When I saw this private letter, I felt a lot. For a woman, how can you tell if a man really loves her? In fact, it is not difficult to judge this matter, because a man's mouth may be able to deceive people, but his actions cannot. Whether a man loves you or not can be seen at a glance from his attitude towards you. When a man doesn't love you, he can't see these three things at all. When a man doesn't love you, he can't see your needs. In reality, a woman needs to judge whether a man loves her or not. In fact, she will know if he can see your needs. The man who loves you is very sensitive to you. Whenever you have a little need, they can see something from your performance, and then take the initiative to satisfy you. And a man who doesn't love you, they don't see your needs at all. Seeing this, some people may say, what if a man is naturally dull and can't really see these things? In fact, such a situation also exists. This is true of some men, who are weak in empathy and have a hard time sensing a woman's emotional needs. At this time, women need to choose the right way to express their needs. The feelings of each of us are very complex, and sometimes we cannot expect the other party to fully understand. Only by expressing the emotions in our hearts can we allow the other party to view the feelings between two people in a better way. For women, in order to truly understand a man's heart, they might as well express their inner needs directly. If the man still chooses to turn a blind eye to avoid it after you express it directly, and is indifferent to it, then the other party doesn't love you anymore. It is not that he cannot meet these needs, but that he is unwilling to do these things for you. For women, when such a thing happens, there is no need to ask men why, and it is the most responsible thing for them to stop the loss in time. As Mu Xin said, "If you ask someone a question, if she doesn't answer what she asked, she has already answered it, and you don't need to ask again." In a relationship, when a man avoids seeing a woman's needs, he is actually avoiding the woman. For them, if they don't love you and want to leave, they will naturally ignore you. When a man doesn't love you, he can't see your contribution. They all say: "When you love someone, you can tolerate everything, but when you don't love someone, you can only be picky." When a man can't see your contribution and only keeps picking on, it often means that his love for you happened. changed. In life, he will constantly suppress your efforts, thereby raising his own efforts. It's like he would say: "Besides doing housework, what else do you do?" "You do housework every day and don't make money. Have you ever thought about my hard work outside?" The family has given everything they have, but he still can't see it. He will only criticize you everywhere and make you feel cold about your choice. Many women don't understand why they have paid everything for their family, but men can't see their sacrifices? In fact, for men, they are born with no concept of housework, because they think from their hearts that it is a woman's duty and responsibility. If women don't change men's cognition, then they will never understand your hard work and hard work for the rest of their lives. So the more women pay, the more men take it for granted, and then don't care. In fact, for women, if a man really wants to feel all this, there is no other way than letting him personally participate in it and feel that it is not easy to take care of the family. Because any other words, other than to irritate him, have no meaning. A family is two people, not one of them. Any family that is maintained by unilateral efforts is actually unstable. The party who pays more will be aggrieved, and the party who doesn't pay will intensify their demands, and the relationship will only get worse. When a man doesn't love you, he can't see your pain. When a man doesn't love you, no matter how miserable you are, they will only find you annoying and vexatious. As Mr. Lu Xun said: "The joys and sorrows of the world are not the same, I just think they are noisy". A man who can bear to make you cry is no longer in love. A man who truly loves you can't bear to make you cry at all. They care about all your emotions, they will appear at the first time, and then appease your emotions. And if a man turns a blind eye to your pain, it's not that he really can't see it, but that he doesn't love him anymore, so he chooses to be invisible. It is often said: "Men are all rough and often can't feel the sensitivity of women." But in fact, how sensitive a man is to your emotions actually only depends on how much he loves you. A man who truly loves you, even if you have a little emotion, they can immediately detect it, because he truly empathizes with you, and he sees you as more important than himself. And a man who doesn't love you, even if they see your pain, they don't care, because they are used to it and become numb, and naturally there is no feeling of heartache, so how can they coax you. In fact, the same is true of people. No matter how nice you are to a person, this kind of goodness will gradually be adapted and become something ordinary. After a long time, it will be ignored. They often can only accept your good, but not a little bit of your bad, because they have no tolerance for you, and naturally they will not understand. ——END Sharing, watching and liking, ask friends to click on me Today's topic: "How do you think about love?"

(Responsible editor:A solitary woman)

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