Such a woman, please love forever

time:2022-12-02 08:35:12 source:chloeaktas.com author:Graduate girl
Such a woman, please love forever

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: From the Internet "My girlfriend and I have been dating for three years. She has accompanied me from the lowest point of my life to the present, but I hesitated when it came to marriage. Because I found that I seem to have met true love recently. , the company has a new colleague. When I saw that woman, my heart thumped, but I didn't feel anything when I saw my girlfriend. I felt that my girlfriend was far worse than my colleague. I also knew that I should not let my girlfriend down, but I was afraid of myself. I regret it in the future, what should I do?" Two days ago, a reader sent such a private letter. When I saw this private letter, I felt a lot. For men, one side is the new love at first sight, and the other is the old love standing together through thick and thin. How should a man choose? If it is normal, the author will definitely persuade men to be responsible and live up to the old love who shared adversity together. But for this reader, I just want to persuade him to be kind, choose to break up as soon as possible, and stop dragging the girl who loves him deeply. Because for this reader, no matter who he chooses now, he will regret it in the future, because he does not know satisfaction, and only sees a girl who loves one and is with him, and will be hurt by him sooner or later. For that girl, leaving is the most correct choice, because when a man is not satisfied, no matter how much a woman pays, he will not only fall in love with a relationship. In reality, many men don't actually know how to choose a future partner or what kind of woman they should love, so they always miss it again and again. In fact, please love your woman for a lifetime. The woman who pulls you when you are at a low point, please love it for a lifetime. They all say: "It's easy to add a flower to the cake, but it's difficult to send charcoal in the snow." Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster strikes. When life is low, a woman who is willing to accompany you through thick and thin and pull you together through adversity must love you very much, and men must love you deeply. Zheng Juan in "The World" has become the woman that many men dream of. She was not well educated, had a rough life, and was pregnant out of wedlock. In that era, such a woman was bound to be looked down upon and criticized by others. But such a woman can make Zhou Bingkun refuse to marry her, and then reject young and beautiful women. The reason why Zheng Juan is so attractive to Zhou Bingkun is inseparable from her own personality charm. They understand each other, love each other, and are willing to think differently. No matter what Zhou Bingkun becomes, they will never despise him, and will always be of one heart and one mind with him. When Zhou Bingkun was down, she carried the burden of the family by herself, and always stood in the rear, holding on to her affection for him. It is also this friendship that moved the audience and loved her characters. But in reality, men are often fascinated by the authorities, clear by onlookers, and can understand the truth when watching TV shows, but they are confused when it comes to their own head. If you still don't know what to choose, let me tell you another story. Everyone knows that Zhu Yuanzhang, the founding emperor of the Ming Dynasty, was brutal. He did all kinds of bad things, but he never failed his other half. His love for Queen Ma is well known. Queen Ma is not the most beautiful or the best figure among the harem beauties, but she is Zhu Yuanzhang's favorite woman. As for why Zhu Yuanzhang prefers Queen Ma so much? That's because they walked side by side from suffering, and finally reached the end of victory. A cow herder, a beggar, and a monk were all disgraceful past identities that he did not want to mention when he became the founding emperor of the Ming Dynasty. At the lowest point in Zhu Yuanzhang's life, Queen Ma was always by his side. The most touching thing is that after Zhu Yuanzhang's success, the love continued, and it became stronger and stronger over time, making them the role models among the emperor's husband and wife. The girl who is still by your side at the most difficult time is definitely one of the most precious treasures in your life, and men must learn to cherish it. Your Daming Emperor could insist on choosing Empress Ma among the harem beauties, why can't you? A woman who pays for you without expecting anything in return deserves to be loved for a lifetime. They all say: "If you don't have anything to do, you just like you very much." You can't hide if you really like someone. When a woman truly falls in love with a man, she often makes sacrifices without regard for return. Maybe this kind of behavior, in everyone's opinion, is the behavior of a stupid woman, but many times, love to the extreme, can't help it. Love is blind, love will paralyze one's reason, and then act like a fool, but everyone is happy to be the fool in love. Even a calm and wise woman will be willing to pay when she meets her so-called true love. This is a common problem shared by women. If you don't, it can only mean that you haven't met the man you truly love. In reality, many people may not understand this emotion. That's because they haven't really loved someone yet. When you really love someone, that's actually the case. You don't even think about whether it's worth it or not, you just pay without hesitation. Just like who you like is your own business, it has nothing to do with him, how he responds is his choice, as long as you make yourself happy on the basis of not disturbing his life without excessive interference, even if he doesn't like me, He must also exhaust all kinds of styles, so that when he thinks of me for the rest of his life, he will not be at peace. It is said that "now it is a society of interests." The premise for everyone to interact and pay with each other is to benefit each other. The bustling world is for profit, and the bustling world is for profit. In this era of only exchange of interests, pure love can be met but not sought. In today's society with complex interests, it is not easy for a man to meet a woman who loves you, but it is worth loving for a lifetime. Of course, the author does not agree with women to pay without asking for anything in return, because most of the unrequited pay in exchange is almost taken for granted by the other party. Even if a woman loves another person, she must know how to restrain herself and keep the water flowing, because only in this way can she get a real empathy. A woman who sacrifices herself to fulfill you is worthy of deep love for a lifetime. If a woman has sacrificed herself to fulfill you, then this woman must be worthy of your love for a lifetime. Because she really loves you, that's why she is so relentless. Just like those women who gave up their careers and dreams for the sake of their families, all their sacrifices were actually for the sake of fulfillment. The author's marriage and family happiness, in fact, a lot of credit comes from the wife's dedication and fulfillment. In order to allow the author to pursue his dream, his wife resolutely gave up work and went home to take care of the family with the baby. She once told me: "Don't worry about your family, do what you want to do with confidence, and everything is up to me." It was also because of what my wife said that the author strengthened my heart to love my wife for the rest of my life. Maybe seeing this, some people will say: "Women have children at home, isn't it justified since ancient times? Because they don't earn as much as men." In the past, it may be normal for women to have children, because at that time the thinking was feudal, men and women were Inequality, women have fewer opportunities to receive education since childhood, and naturally cannot compete with men who can be educated, so most women choose to take care of their children at home. In today's era of equality between men and women, the gap between the two sides is not large, because the education received from childhood is the same, so that today's women are no worse than men, and their incomes are almost the same. In the past, it was helpless for women to choose to stay at home, but now women choose to stay at home by sacrificing themselves to fulfill men and families. Because women can also earn money outside, they can chase their dreams, just for the family, they choose to pay. For men, if a woman sacrifices herself to fulfill you, then this woman must be worthy of deep love for a lifetime. ——END Today's topic: "What do you think?"

(Responsible editor:Rich young woman)

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