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"Wife, go home, I really can't do it without you at home" Wife: Will you be ordered to go back?
time:2023-01-30 05:21:55 source:chloeaktas.com author:Girl
"Wife, go home, I really can't do it without you at home" Wife: Will you be ordered to go back?
Marriage is not a one-man show. It requires the joint participation and mutual contribution of two people in order to manage the family well and keep each other's original intentions. However, there is always a slight gap between ideals and reality, especially for women, if they are unkind to others , then all the efforts will be meaningless. What a woman hopes is nothing more than marrying a responsible man, who can give herself a sense of security, and will care and accompany herself. Feelings are also mutual. I will treat you how you treat me. When a man can meet his wife's psychological needs, he will naturally be able to get his wife's sincere treatment. Only then can both husband and wife go hand in hand and face the ups and downs in life together. Rain, in the same way, if there is only one-way giving in a marriage, then this unequal love is destined to be difficult to reach the end. Xin Yu's marriage was like this. At first, despite her parents' objections, she insisted on marrying the love in her heart, and she would marry far away even if she turned against her parents. She strongly opposed her going to work and asked her to serve her in-laws and manage the housework at home, so she had to be a full-time wife at home. Later, Xinyu gave birth to a daughter, but her parents-in-law had a preference for sons and daughters, and thought that it would be a joke if she didn't give birth to a boy, so she didn't feel good about Xinyu, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to deteriorate, even taking care of her daughter-in-law. The confinement refused, the father-in-law had to go to work, and the mother-in-law played mahjong all day long. All the family matters and childcare fell to Xin Yu. It was not until she had a second child and gave birth to a boy that the family relationship eased. However, Xin Yu still had to work hard for the family, and she was often thankless and often scolded by her mother-in-law. In the end, her husband didn't even get paid. She doesn't want to hand it over. When Xinyu wants to use the money, she has to report it to him. Every month's expenses need to be recorded. If this month's expenses are more than the previous month's, she will be accused by her husband of spending extravagantly. . After a long time, Xin Yu couldn't take it anymore, but she had no source of income. All these years, her life had revolved around her family, and she had long been out of touch with society. She didn't know anyone in this place who could help, so she could only choose to endure until On her father's birthday, she thought that she hadn't come home for a long time, so she wanted to ask her husband to buy some money to buy something to go home, but she was unanimously opposed by them. Her mother-in-law thought that a married daughter was just spilled water, and it was unnecessary. Spend your money on your mother's house. Her husband also accused her of not doing anything to supplement her parents' family. Xinyu was so angry that she quarreled with them, and then went home with a few clothes. Her parents were also very angry when they learned what happened to her, and her husband called and told her to go home and take care of the children. Xin Yu could only be prepared to compromise for the sake of the child, but her younger brother said, "Why are you still going back? Being a free nanny to serve their whole family, you have to be angry. If you want me to tell you, don't go back. Find a job first, and find a good job for yourself. Retreat, then get divorced and then go get the kids back. Perhaps it was the past experience that made Xin Yu completely disappointed, so she agreed to her brother's proposal and started a new life with his help. When her husband called again, Xin Yu said directly that she would not go back, and her husband sneered. Dao: If you are still thinking about making money, don't cry and want to come back. Xinyu was completely irritated. Although her education level was not high, she was willing to endure hardships. With her insistence, her monthly salary after entering the factory was more than 4,000 yuan. Later, she also had her own savings, and finally she no longer needed to look at her husband's face and ask for money to live like before. After she stabilized, she also called her husband. As soon as the husband answered the call, he cried: "Wife, come back soon. It's really impossible without you at home. The children are always looking for you, and my mother's health is getting worse and worse." Well, I need someone to take care of it, I really can't handle it alone. Hearing her husband's words, Xin Yu said directly: Go back and continue to be ordered by you? Impossible, I'm calling to inform you that you are going to divorce. After listening to his wife's words, the husband began to retain and apologize in various ways, but Xin Yu was already disheartened, but thinking of the child, she couldn't bear it, and she didn't know how to deal with it better. Buffett once said: The most important decision in your life is who to marry. In choosing a partner, if you are wrong, you will lose a lot. And the loss isn't just monetary. Love can easily make people blind and make wrong judgments, but after recognizing the reality and escaping the fire pit, they continue to jump back and live a life of grievances in the past, that is self-inflicted. For women, marriage is related to the second half of their life. Only when they meet the right person, they can be happy. Therefore, if you want to get married, you must be cautious and open your eyes to treat them rationally, rather than relying on temporary goodwill and passion. Once you step into marriage in a hurry, once you ignore the character and family style of the other party, it will be difficult to live the life you want after marriage. #marriage# #emotion# #emotional office#
Marriage is not a one-man show. It requires the joint participation and mutual contribution of two people in order to manage the family well and keep each other's original intentions. However, there is always a slight gap between ideals and reality, especially for women, if they are unkind to others , then all the efforts will be meaningless. What a woman hopes is nothing more than marrying a responsible man, who can give herself a sense of security, and will care and accompany herself. Feelings are also mutual. I will treat you how you treat me. When a man can meet his wife's psychological needs, he will naturally be able to get his wife's sincere treatment. Only then can both husband and wife go hand in hand and face the ups and downs in life together. Rain, in the same way, if there is only one-way giving in a marriage, then this unequal love is destined to be difficult to reach the end. Xin Yu's marriage was like this. At first, despite her parents' objections, she insisted on marrying the love in her heart, and she would marry far away even if she turned against her parents. She strongly opposed her going to work and asked her to serve her in-laws and manage the housework at home, so she had to be a full-time wife at home. Later, Xinyu gave birth to a daughter, but her parents-in-law had a preference for sons and daughters, and thought that it would be a joke if she didn't give birth to a boy, so she didn't feel good about Xinyu, and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law began to deteriorate, even taking care of her daughter-in-law. The confinement refused, the father-in-law had to go to work, and the mother-in-law played mahjong all day long. All the family matters and childcare fell to Xin Yu. It was not until she had a second child and gave birth to a boy that the family relationship eased. However, Xin Yu still had to work hard for the family, and she was often thankless and often scolded by her mother-in-law. In the end, her husband didn't even get paid. She doesn't want to hand it over. When Xinyu wants to use the money, she has to report it to him. Every month's expenses need to be recorded. If this month's expenses are more than the previous month's, she will be accused by her husband of spending extravagantly. . After a long time, Xin Yu couldn't take it anymore, but she had no source of income. All these years, her life had revolved around her family, and she had long been out of touch with society. She didn't know anyone in this place who could help, so she could only choose to endure until On her father's birthday, she thought that she hadn't come home for a long time, so she wanted to ask her husband to buy some money to buy something to go home, but she was unanimously opposed by them. Her mother-in-law thought that a married daughter was just spilled water, and it was unnecessary. Spend your money on your mother's house. Her husband also accused her of not doing anything to supplement her parents' family. Xinyu was so angry that she quarreled with them, and then went home with a few clothes. Her parents were also very angry when they learned what happened to her, and her husband called and told her to go home and take care of the children. Xin Yu could only be prepared to compromise for the sake of the child, but her younger brother said, "Why are you still going back? Being a free nanny to serve their whole family, you have to be angry. If you want me to tell you, don't go back. Find a job first, and find a good job for yourself. Retreat, then get divorced and then go get the kids back. Perhaps it was the past experience that made Xin Yu completely disappointed, so she agreed to her brother's proposal and started a new life with his help. When her husband called again, Xin Yu said directly that she would not go back, and her husband sneered. Dao: If you are still thinking about making money, don't cry and want to come back. Xinyu was completely irritated. Although her education level was not high, she was willing to endure hardships. With her insistence, her monthly salary after entering the factory was more than 4,000 yuan. Later, she also had her own savings, and finally she no longer needed to look at her husband's face and ask for money to live like before. After she stabilized, she also called her husband. As soon as the husband answered the call, he cried: "Wife, come back soon. It's really impossible without you at home. The children are always looking for you, and my mother's health is getting worse and worse." Well, I need someone to take care of it, I really can't handle it alone. Hearing her husband's words, Xin Yu said directly: Go back and continue to be ordered by you? Impossible, I'm calling to inform you that you are going to divorce. After listening to his wife's words, the husband began to retain and apologize in various ways, but Xin Yu was already disheartened, but thinking of the child, she couldn't bear it, and she didn't know how to deal with it better. Buffett once said: The most important decision in your life is who to marry. In choosing a partner, if you are wrong, you will lose a lot. And the loss isn't just monetary. Love can easily make people blind and make wrong judgments, but after recognizing the reality and escaping the fire pit, they continue to jump back and live a life of grievances in the past, that is self-inflicted. For women, marriage is related to the second half of their life. Only when they meet the right person, they can be happy. Therefore, if you want to get married, you must be cautious and open your eyes to treat them rationally, rather than relying on temporary goodwill and passion. Once you step into marriage in a hurry, once you ignore the character and family style of the other party, it will be difficult to live the life you want after marriage. #marriage# #emotion# #emotional office#
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