After getting married, the wife asked to add the name of the house. Husband: No way, that was the house that my parents bought with all the money.

time:2022-10-02 05:38:57 source:chloeaktas.com author:Housewife
After getting married, the wife asked to add the name of the house. Husband: No way, that was the house that my parents bought with all the money.

Marriage is a long process. It requires both husband and wife to work together and give to each other in order to manage the family well and make the relationship between each other enduring. However, in real life, there is still a family of origin behind the husband and wife. When running a small family, you should also avoid the influence of your own family. Otherwise, you will not be able to understand the priorities, and you will often do things that harm the interests of the small family. Once you do this, your lover’s heart will be broken , it would be difficult for the husband and wife to treat each other calmly, let alone walk hand in hand. Yang Hao's marriage was like this. After graduating from college, he found a stable job and planned to stay in the city. His parents emptied their savings and helped him buy a house so that he could have a place to live. , but also explained to him that it is not easy to buy a house for him, so when he gets married, there is not much they can help with the betrothal gifts and other expenses. Yang Hao also knew the conditions of the family, so his parents bought the house for him in full. He gained confidence in this city, and he seemed very confident when going on a blind date, and because he had a house, he quickly found his ideal Xu Lei. After the two had been dating for half a year, Yang Hao also wanted to have a family of his own as soon as possible, so he began to talk about marriage, but the wife's family's requirements were not low, and the dowry was 100,000, which was not a small sum for Yang Hao. And getting married requires various other expenses, but for Xu Lei, he still agreed. In the days that followed, Yang Hao was always busy with the marriage. Fortunately, everything went smoothly, but he was still a little dissatisfied after the marriage, that is, after the dowry gift was given, his wife did not bring back a penny. There was hardly even a dowry, and what made him even more dissatisfied was that on the second day of marriage, his wife asked to add her name to the house. Yang Hao was a little concerned about the dowry at the time, so he didn't give her a clear response, but in the days to come, he realized that his wife's heart was not in his own home at all. Every time she was on vacation, she would go back to her mother's house, and she would buy a lot of things to bring back. As long as her mother's family needed it, she would contribute money and efforts, and even sometimes asked Yang Hao for money, but she always had to ask Yang Hao for money. They were all indifferent, without any greetings or concern. Even if her mother-in-law sometimes chatted with her, she would ignore her. The way his wife's bowl of water was unfair naturally made Yang Hao feel very uncomfortable. It wasn't until later that Yang Hao realized that in addition to being good to her parents on the surface, her wife had been secretly subsidizing her brother-in-law. , Otherwise, I have no sense of security, like an outsider. Yang Hao couldn't take it anymore, so he replied directly: You have always wanted to add a name to the house, but my parents bought this house for me in full, and you didn't pay a penny, what qualifications do you have to ask for a name addition, even if you want to Jia also has to ask my parents for permission, but how do you usually treat them? After listening to Xu Lei, she didn't dare to respond, but then said softly: But I'm also a member of the family and your wife, so it's not too much to ask for a name for the house? After listening to the husband, he sneered and replied, "You are so embarrassed to say that you are part of the family. Why don't you bring back a cent of the betrothal gift after marriage? Have you paid for this family?" Your heart has always been with your mother's family. I only know that you do your best for your family, but you don't care about your family. Hearing this, Xu Lei was completely speechless. Writer Zhou Guoping once said: A sense of proportion is a sign of mature love. In interpersonal communication, we must know how to observe the necessary distance between people. This is still the case when interacting with people. It is even more necessary for relatives to grasp the size. Especially after entering the marriage and having one's own family, it is necessary to understand the priority of the original family and the small family, rather than the influence of the original family. When you come to Xiaojia, you blindly make allowances and sacrifices, but ignore your lover's feelings. If things go on like this, the relationship between husband and wife will become estranged, and it will be difficult to maintain a stable marriage.

(Responsible editor:Divorced women)

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