Seeing her parents for the first time, the prospective mother-in-law made three family rules, and the girl decided to break up when she returned.

time:2022-10-02 03:46:04 source:chloeaktas.com author:Graduate girl
Seeing her parents for the first time, the prospective mother-in-law made three family rules, and the girl decided to break up when she returned.

Every woman hopes to meet the right person, have a happy marriage, and have a man who knows how to cherish and care for herself, but in addition, it is more important to meet a good mother-in-law, otherwise, once the running-in fails, If you can't adapt, it will definitely affect the quality of your marriage. In real life, every family also has its own way of getting along, and some even follow the rules. As long as the son gets married, those mothers-in-law who love to put on airs will want to give their daughter-in-law a slap in the face to consolidate the son's status as the head of the family. Also let the daughter-in-law know that you need to respect yourself in this family. It is normal for people to have requirements, but if some requirements are out of reality, then it is no wonder that others will not give you a good look. As Schiller said: people who do not respect others , and others will not respect him. Xu Hao and Xin Yu are college classmates. After graduation, because they were in the same city, the two went to and fro, and the spark of love was born. Since they fell in love, their relationship has been very stable. Xu Hao is also sincere to Xin Yu. Yes, it is almost always obedient and responsive, but when they are dating, Xin Yu finds that her boyfriend always talks about her mother inadvertently. After understanding, she realizes that Xu Hao's family is the mother in charge of the house, and she has a very strong personality and likes it. Revolving around himself, and therefore the boyfriend is both dependent on and afraid of his mother. After learning about her boyfriend's family model, Xin Yu also retreated, afraid that she would not be able to cope with her mother-in-law, and even more afraid of her boyfriend's habitually submissive attitude. If there was a conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, she would suffer all grievances, but Xu Hao But he has been comforting her: getting married is a life of two people, and then the mother will not be too involved. Even though her boyfriend talked a lot, Xin Yu was still a little worried, so she decided to go to the man's house first, and asked to see the parents. Xu Hao was naturally very happy. Dressed up, bought a lot of things, and wanted to make a good impression. After arriving home, Xin Yu found that the situation was indeed similar to what her boyfriend said. Basically, it was her boyfriend's father who was busy before and after. As for her future mother-in-law, she kept asking about her situation, such as how many people there were in the family? What do parents do? How much are wages and savings? A series of questions made Xin Yu feel very uncomfortable, and also made her feel that her future mother-in-law would not be easy to get along with. After my mother-in-law understood what she wanted, she began to say: In fact, I am not very satisfied with your condition, but my son likes it, so I will not interfere too much, just want to enter my house, there are some rules I have to make it clear to you first. The first is that you have to do the housework. You know, and I know my son. He can't do housework. The second is whether you are at home or outside, you have to give my son enough face, he says what he says. The third is that after getting married, you have to keep a good distance from your mother's house. The married daughter is the water that was poured out. When you have nothing to do, don't run to her mother's house, let alone subsidize it. The most important thing is to take care of your family. . After hearing this, Xin Yu's smile stiffened, but she didn't expect her boyfriend to say: My mother is right, just listen to her. She was completely disappointed by her boyfriend's words, and then she made an excuse to leave. As soon as she got home, her boyfriend sent another message: Did you remember what my mother said, you didn't agree just now, she is feeling a little bit Not happy? Xin Yu only found it funny after reading it, and then replied: I'm sorry, I didn't remember a single one, and I won't agree. We should break up. Your family has too many demands, and I can't do it. Afterwards, Xu Hao also accused his girlfriend of being too troublesome, having a big temper, and breaking up over a trivial matter, but Xin Yu didn't bother to pay any attention to him, and directly deleted all his contact information. Love is beautiful, but marriage needs to be cautious, not only to see whether the other party is sincere, but also to have the appropriate three views and family traditions, and then there will be happiness after marriage, especially when you are made difficult, men. The attitude and way of dealing with it are particularly important, and only by making a woman feel at ease and happy, will she be firm in this relationship to the end, and will be full of expectations for the future. As a parent, it is normal to worry about the marriage of the child, but there must be principles and bottom lines, not in the name of being good for the child, but not respecting the other half of the child, all kinds of persecution before marriage, and all kinds of interference after marriage. In the end, it is often a piece of chicken feathers. Besides, each family also has its own way of getting along, and the one that suits you is the best. As an elder, sometimes it is the correct way to handle it without interfering too much. The contradictions caused will be out of control, and will also cause the child's disgust and resentment, which can only be thankless in the end. #marriage##emotion##emotional office#

(Responsible editor:Single woman)

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