"Hurry up and let my daughter-in-law come back to serve me" Son: I can be filial to you, but my daughter-in-law is not obliged

time:2022-10-02 05:36:40 source:chloeaktas.com author:A solitary woman
"Hurry up and let my daughter-in-law come back to serve me" Son: I can be filial to you, but my daughter-in-law is not obliged

It is said that marriage is a wall. People outside want to come in, but people inside want to escape. In fact, if marriage is really happy, who would want to escape? It’s nothing more than poor management. I don’t want to think about leaving when I don’t want to suffer. When I fall in love, I can feel your love and I’m free. Hand, grow old together with your son, but after really entering the marriage, you will find that you need to take on your own family roles, and you have to face more trivial matters and pressures. If you want to continue the happiness before marriage, you will often find that Powerless. Especially for women, marriage is related to the second half of their life, and only when they meet the right person can they be happy after marriage, but a mother-in-law who can understand right and wrong will be even luckier. There is no denying the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. It will affect the direction of the marriage. If you really can't get along, it is better to live separately, so as to avoid endless conflicts, and it will not let a good family fall into pieces. Xu Yang and his wife also got married out of love at the beginning, and they had a happy time after marriage, but everything has changed since the mother came uninvited. The mother is a person with good face and a strong personality, perhaps because of Her father was so used to her and followed her that she always felt that everyone had to turn around her. Because of this, she and her daughter-in-law never got along. At first, in order to please her, her wife would cook according to her taste every day, but she was always picky, and her wife didn't want to cook too much. Sometimes The wife took the initiative to chat with her. She likes to speak up, and she does not allow others to refute her views. When it comes to the wife who often fights at the end, she doesn't know how to respond. Until that time, when my wife bought a piece of clothes online, my mother thought it was too expensive, so she scolded my wife for spending too much money. I spend my hard-earned money, it's none of your business. After hearing this, the mother became even more angry and shouted directly: You marry my son, the money belongs to my son, so you are not allowed to spend it casually. In the end, his wife was so angry that she packed her things and returned to her parents' house. Xu Yang didn't know about it until he came back. He called and apologized to his wife for a long time, but his wife was reluctant to come back. ? The last two people were separated for half a month. Xu Yang knew in his heart that if he wanted his wife to come back, he could only ask his mother to go back. However, due to the pressure of family affection, Xu Yang never dared to speak. Until that day, his mother suddenly said: hurry up I asked my daughter-in-law to come back from her mother's house to serve me. There are still a lot of things to do at home, so why don't you go home? Hearing this, Xu Yang was immediately angry, and said directly: OK, then you move back first, it is right for me to be filial to you, but my daughter-in-law has no such obligation, so don't kidnap her morally. After hearing this, the mother started to make a big noise and said that her son was unfilial and would rather go to outsiders than help herself. In the end, Xu Yang asked his father to come over, and finally sent his mother back to his hometown, and then immediately went to bring his wife home. After the separation, he also wanted to understand that his wife was the one who would accompany him to his old age, and that his mother would To be filial, but his wife is also the person closest to him. In order to save the marriage, he can only make a choice, instead of being kidnapped by family affection and filial piety. Philosopher Bacon said: In life, the wife is the lover of youth, the companion of middle age, and the guardian of old age. It is true that parents will grow old, children will grow up, and only lovers will accompany them to old age. Therefore, in family relations, the relationship between husband and wife is the most important, and only when husband and wife can treat each other calmly and support each other can they give home to them. Only with good management can the relationship between each other endure and face the ups and downs in life together. As for the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, if you really can't get along, it is better to maintain a certain distance. After all, if you are too close, you will easily cause conflicts, and if you are too far away, you will become unfamiliar. The right distance can often get along well. The husband acts as a bridge between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. In the face of conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is even more necessary to deal with it rationally and calmly. Only by actively adjusting can we turn battles into jade and silk, and we can truly make our family and everything prosperous. #emotion##emotional office##marriage and family#

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