time：2023-03-26 12:32:57 source：chloeaktas.com author：Divorced women

No matter how filial your children are before marriage, they must live separately from them after marriage

After their children get married, should parents live with them? I heard a metaphor: parents and adult children are best kept at a distance of "a bowl of soup". Each has its own space and density, and families can reduce friction and lead to a harmonious and happy life. Case 1: The younger brother of my second uncle's family bought a house in the place where he worked after marriage, settled down, and loved his daughter-in-law. The second uncle and the second aunt are doing a small business in their hometown, and their son and daughter-in-law often call and say some heart-warming words. The second aunt told everyone that the daughter-in-law called again, and all kinds of praises for the daughter-in-law were good. Because there was no place to live because of the demolition, the younger brother decided to take the two elders to their house. The second uncle and the second aunt also thought it would be better to live with their son and daughter-in-law, so they agreed. Within two months, I heard from my aunt that the second aunt and daughter-in-law were having trouble. (Second aunt and aunt get along very well, and tell her anything.) The whole family sits together for dinner. The younger brother brings food to his daughter-in-law, but not to the second aunt, and the second aunt gets angry. The second aunt is used to saving in the countryside. The plastic bags left over from grocery shopping are used as garbage bags, but they are relatively small, and the garbage often leaks out of the plastic bags. The daughter-in-law persuaded her not to use it. live. The younger brother helped his daughter-in-law to tell the second aunt that there is no shortage of money for the garbage bag, so don't save so much. A very common sentence, but the second aunt felt very sad. She felt that she had worked so hard to raise her son, and that when she married a daughter-in-law, she would no longer be interested in herself. Then again, it's not all for their own good. What an obedient son in the past, but now... this son was raised in vain, the second aunt was angry and did not eat, and hung her face for several days. The second uncle also felt that his daughter-in-law was not the previous daughter-in-law, and he couldn't get along a bit. The contradictions and frictions brought about by such trivial matters of life are more and more, the backlog is too much, and it erupts. The daughter-in-law lived in the company's dormitory. When the conflict intensified, the second uncle's daughter gave birth to a second child, and the old couple moved to her daughter's house to serve her daughter's confinement. (Second uncle's daughter does not have a mother-in-law) Look, the distance is closer, but the relationship becomes farther. Case 2: The daughter-in-law of the neighbor's aunt's family is from Cangshan, Shandong. After marrying, the new house in the city has not been renovated, so they live together for the time being. My daughter-in-law likes to put some grains such as soybean lentils (we call it douqianzi) oatmeal when cooking porridge, and add some salt. Because she was just married, although the aunt didn't like to drink salted porridge, she didn't say anything. But I often drink like this, and my aunt is not happy. She thinks that it is not salty in pickle soup, and salt in porridge, so what is porridge called? When cooking, the daughter-in-law likes to eat light dishes, while the aunt has a strong taste, and always feels that the dishes cooked by the daughter-in-law have no taste. When washing dishes, the aunt likes to use edible alkali, and the daughter-in-law likes to use detergent, so they can't get used to each other's living habits. The aunt often complained about her daughter-in-law in front of the neighbors. After the house was renovated, the daughter-in-law and son moved out, and the aunt told the neighbors that she could finally live the life she wanted. On Sundays and holidays, her son and daughter-in-law come to visit her and buy her some daily necessities and skin care products. She is so happy that she starts to praise her daughter-in-law again. The distance is far, the relationship is close. After your sons get married, try not to live with them if you can. There is a big gap in social concepts and living habits, leaving a certain space for each other, which is good for the son and good for himself.

(Responsible editor：Rich young woman)

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