time：2023-03-26 10:29:16 source：chloeaktas.com author：Divorced women

I'm married to a rich husband, but I'm not at peace because he has a secret girlfriend

My husband is eight years older than me. When I got married, I was 31 and he was 39. We are both married, and each has a child by his side. He is a 985 master student, engaged in the financial industry, and usually works from home, so he can be regarded as an otaku. He made a fortune by reselling steel and houses. He bought eight houses in Beijing, all of which are now renting out. He still has stocks and investments in large factories. The money may not be used up in three lifetimes! His family of origin is very ordinary, that is, ordinary civil servants. Neither of his parents are officials. He was eccentric, conceited, and pretentious. But usually in front of outsiders, he always behaves suave and courteous, but he doesn't pretend to be a grandson in front of me, he behaves arrogantly, and sometimes he is arrogant. He was very generous to me and gave me a card directly, which I could use as I wish. It's also very good to my son, buying him toys and new clothes, especially willing to spend money for him. When I first got married, he saw that my home was an old and dilapidated house in the city. He directly bought us a large flat in Xicheng District, costing more than 15 million yuan, so that my parents could live more comfortably and save money. climbing stairs. He was very willing to spend money on me. As long as I liked things that I liked, he bought them for me without blinking an eye. Under his influence, I also developed the habit of spending money, and I never planned to save money. For the past two years, we have lived in a large villa, with two nannies and a driver, and we have lived a very comfortable life. He would take me and the kids on a trip every once in a while. Especially during holidays, he will book tickets in advance, arrange everything, and take our family on a trip. He has money and likes to show off his wealth. He is a bit high-profile like Li Xiang, and likes to show off in the circle of friends. He also often invites relatives and friends to dinner, and distributes big red envelopes to each child after eating. In our wedding, he spent hundreds of millions of dollars, invited a well-known wedding company, and also invited a famous singer Liu Moumou to perform at the wedding scene to add to the fun. He was so afraid of thunder, and subconsciously he always felt that he would be struck by thunder, so he generally did not dare to go out on rainy days. Every time there was thunder, he told me to close the window, but he didn't dare to go. He even covered his ears with his hands. Basically I don't care much about him, and he doesn't have any complaints. He also has a girlfriend, who was in love with him before, and gave birth to children for him. Later, he became infertile, and they broke up. I heard that he compensated his girlfriend for more than 8 million. He made a condition for marrying me. He often wants to meet this girlfriend. I asked her why, but she refused to tell me, so I had to agree. I don't know what the nature of their meeting is. They meet every week. Don't worry, my husband has money anyway, so he can give it to anyone he wants. Maybe he feels sorry for her, because he has a kind of compensation mentality. Both my son and his daughter go to bilingual kindergartens. The monthly tuition fee for each child is 280,000 yuan. When I do beauty treatments, every time I recharge it, it is 200,000 yuan. Now I look at least a few years younger than my peers, thanks to beauty. Sometimes I feel so empty inside and can't find the meaning of life. He is very kind to me. He often takes me out to play, takes me and my children to travel, and also accompanies me to go shopping, go to the supermarket, and go out for a walk. When I go out to play, I will take pictures for me, and they will also praise me for being beautiful and having a good temperament. His strange place is his study. He doesn't let me go in casually, and sets up a restricted area for me. I guess there are secrets between him and his girlfriend hidden there. Basically, when I get together with my best friend, he will also support me and play the role of a good husband. But the relationship between us is more of a family relationship, and I think he likes his girlfriend more in his heart. He gets up very early to work every morning, and I often go to bed at one or two o'clock at night, and basically don't get up until 11 am the next day, and then go to lunch after taking care of the flowers and plants. I love learning German, and he supports me every time I take an online class. He once studied in Germany and sometimes corrects my pronunciation. But unfortunately, I have studied for a few years, but still no progress. He seems to be afraid of death and is very hygienic. For example, he would not allow the camellia oil sent from our hometown. He felt that the old watch squeezed it by himself. He is very particular about what he eats. He also has the kind of cleanliness that likes to wash his hands with sanitizer. The dishes are washed in the dishwasher every day, and he says hand washing is not clean. There are also things in the house that he has to categorize and place, and the requirements in this regard are almost harsh. Because I am rich, many of my classmates and friends are very envious of me and say that I have married a good husband and have risen to a higher level. But sometimes I feel pretty empty and boring myself. What is the meaning of life? Eating well, dressing well, and looking beautiful on the surface, but I still have a lump in my heart. I always feel that the relationship between my husband and that girlfriend is not pure, but I can do nothing to manage this matter. But thinking about it on the other hand, his girlfriend didn't hinder me, so I have one more thing, it's better to have one less thing, just let him go!

(Responsible editor：Girl)

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