The cross-border relationship between the opposite sex often starts from these "sharing"

time:2022-12-02 23:12:02 author:Housewife
The cross-border relationship between the opposite sex often starts from these "sharing"

Text / Ye Feifei yff picture / From the Internet I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional tutor, who writes heartfelt emotional words, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort. When the opposite sex communicates, if they do not abide by the bottom line and often cross the boundary, the relationship can easily cross the boundary. In itself, the relationship between men and women is very delicate. If you don't pay attention, it will breed ambiguous feelings. If both parties do not have this awareness, it will eventually make the relationship sour. Normal men and women do not communicate frequently or share sensitive things. They know how to avoid suspicion and have a strong sense of proportion. However, some men and women are different. As long as they have time together, they like to play ambiguous. There is no measure of words and deeds. Outsiders can see the ambiguous relationship at a glance. Therefore, when it comes to the opposite sex, we must stick to the bottom line of the relationship and never go beyond the limit. Especially men and women with families, they should be more vigilant and refuse to play ambiguous at any time. This is the consciousness that adults should have. After all, the cross-border relationship between the opposite sex often starts from these "sharing", and men and women must avoid it.

First, sharing thoughts means that the relationship is not easy

Generally speaking, only people who have a very close relationship will share their thoughts. After all, a person's mind is private, there are inevitably some secrets, and it is impossible to let others know. If the opposite sex often shares their thoughts, it means that the relationship is not simple, and it may have crossed the line long ago. For example, two people always talk about some topics of love and sexual relations, or secrets that are hard to tell in their hearts. Outsiders will not know about these thoughts, and even their own family members may not be able to spy out. Therefore, if the opposite sex can share these thoughts, it is actually a close relationship, and they are not prepared for each other. If they are not restrained, the relationship will cross the line sooner or later. In reality, some men specialize in inquiring into women's minds. On the surface, they care about women, but they are actually just to play ambiguous. Moreover, some women are also irrational. When they meet a man who is more compatible, they have no defense and easily believe what a man says. As a result, the two often chatted, spied on each other's thoughts, and the relationship was ambiguous. After a long time, both parties will have an illusion that the other party is the ideal lover, so that some kind of relationship will inevitably occur. However, after all, this kind of relationship is not normal, and if men and women are addicted to it, it will inevitably bring huge troubles. When it affects their respective marriages and families, the final outcome will be tragic and the gains will outweigh the losses.

Second, sharing personal items, in fact, the relationship is already ambiguous

It is best not to share personal items between the opposite sex to avoid ambiguous relationships. After all, everyone's personal items are private, and sharing with the opposite sex will inevitably breed some feelings, which can easily make the relationship sour. For example, the mobile phones of men and women should not be freely viewed by others. There may be many private things in them. Once exposed, it is easy to cause trouble. There are also men's and women's clothes and umbrellas, which are not the closest people and cannot be easily borrowed. Otherwise, it is easy for two people to have feelings for each other, and the more they meet, the more intimate the relationship will definitely become. Especially women's cups, nail clippers, bracelets, etc., don't use them casually for men, so as not to let men get into the wrong and cause the relationship to cross the line. In reality, some men and women have no such awareness at all. When they are together, they use things casually without certain taboos. This is a very irrational behavior. Once, in the office, I saw a male colleague take a girl's nail clippers, and there was no sense of proportion. Moreover, the male colleague joked while using it, that the girl's things have body fragrance, which is too intoxicating. These abnormal behaviors are actually expressions of ambiguous relationships. If a girl does not refuse, it is easy for others to misunderstand. Therefore, between men and women, do not share personal items, know how to avoid suspicion, and maintain boundaries, so that the relationship will not cross the boundary.

Three, sharing intimacy is the proof that the relationship crosses the boundary

In reality, there are many men and women who have no sense of boundaries, often flirt with each other, and have physical This kind of behavior is very irrational. Generally speaking, intimacy only occurs between couples and couples, in order to maintain the relationship and make the relationship sweeter. For example, when the two sides go out, holding hands, this can enhance the intimacy between each other. Or, two people together, often hugging and kissing, make the relationship even sweeter. However, if men and women are just ordinary friends, but they do these intimate behaviors, it seems very abnormal, and basically the relationship has crossed the line. In fact, some men and women are the most incapable of restraining themselves in this regard, but if their relationship is better, they like to play ambiguous. As long as two people have the opportunity to be together, they are either hooking up or making all kinds of inappropriate jokes, and their relationship is ambiguous. On the surface, they call themselves friends of the opposite sex, but a discerning person can tell at a glance that the relationship between the two sides has turned sour. Just imagine, how could there be physical contact between men and women who interact normally? In the final analysis, only those who use friendship to play ambiguous will meet frequently and do all kinds of intimate behaviors. This requires men and women to be vigilant, not to lose the happiness of the entire family for the sake of temporary ambiguity, otherwise, it will be too late to regret it. Ye Feifei yff's emotional message: To sum up, the cross-border relationship between the opposite sex often starts from these "sharing": sharing one's mind, indicating that the relationship is not simple; sharing personal items, in fact, the relationship is already ambiguous; sharing intimate behavior, it is the relationship that crosses the border prove. It is hoped that men and women in reality must pay attention, and only by restraining their inner desires can they avoid cross-border behavior. Otherwise, the two sides will not restrain themselves and have no sense of proportion when communicating, which will make the relationship sour sooner or later. In short, adults, must have the most basic principles and bottom lines, and do not share these. When interacting, take the initiative to refuse ambiguity, and take the initiative to keep a distance from the opposite sex in order to maintain a normal opposite-sex relationship. END Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on creation and sharing in the emotional field, use emotions to communicate your heart and my heart, I hope you and I get to know each other here, please follow me if you like.

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