"If you don't remarry my son, let's see who wants you." Before two months, the ex-mother-in-law saw what she didn't want to see

time:2022-10-02 04:37:29 source:chloeaktas.com author:Divorced women
"If you don't remarry my son, let's see who wants you." Before two months, the ex-mother-in-law saw what she didn't want to see

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Everyone hopes that their life can be smooth sailing, without twists and turns, but this is difficult to achieve, people There are always ups and downs and setbacks in life. These setbacks may occur in life, at work, or at home. Most of the women's setbacks come from family conflicts, from the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Many conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are difficult to resolve, but all problems will always be solved one day. Therefore, no matter what kind of setbacks are, people must face them firmly and bravely. To overcome difficulties and setbacks, how can we welcome the rainbow without experiencing wind and rain. We must have experience to be considered a wonderful life. The protagonist of today's case, Wang Xin, once met a wonderful mother-in-law and an inactive husband, but she was also lucky. After the divorce, she still gained her own happiness.

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Wang Xin and her husband Zhao Liang are college classmates. The two have been in love since college, and their relationship has always been stable. Zhao Liang is an honest person, has always been gentle and considerate to his girlfriend, and has always been obedient to his girlfriend's words. Although his family background is average, he will satisfy his girlfriend's requirements, which also makes Wang Xin very gratified. The love in her student days was so pure and simple. She didn't want her education, family background, or money. She only wanted this man to love her and love her. Therefore, when the two graduated and worked, even if there were people of the opposite sex around, Wang Xin never wavered. She felt that since she had chosen Zhao Liang, she would go with him firmly. In the third year of their graduation and work, Wang Xin and Zhao Liang are ready to end their long-distance love run and embark on a new journey in life, and join hands to step into the palace of marriage. At that time, Wang Xin felt very happy and proud, because in the current era, there are not many couples who can maintain a stable relationship for many years and can reach the end of a campus romance like them. At that time, she also hoped and firmly believed. I can spend the rest of my life hand in hand with my future husband Zhao Liang. But the reality is always cruel. People say that marriage is the grave of love. It is not a lie. Even if they are happy and happy before marriage, they will not be able to match the tiredness and helplessness brought by the chicken feathers after marriage, especially the frequent family conflicts. Lost patience and love for each other. The biggest problem with their relationship as husband and wife is that there is a mother-in-law who has been constantly alienating their relationship. Wang Xin's mother-in-law can be said to be the biggest stumbling block in their marriage. Not long after the two got married, Wang Xin became pregnant, and Zhao Liang called his mother to take care of his wife, but after her mother-in-law came, she always wanted to give her daughter-in-law a slap in the face, and often slandered her daughter-in-law in front of her son. It doesn't mean that the daughter-in-law is useless, it just means that she doesn't know how to run a house, and she always says her daughter-in-law is worthless. At the beginning, Zhao Liang would be considerate of his wife's pregnancy, and he would help his wife speak, but after the child was born, his wife's attention gradually shifted to the child. This also gave the mother-in-law an opportunity to instill in her son the incompetence of his wife, saying that other people's families can work in the field after giving birth to children, but she is hypocritical and can't even go to work. Feed no meat. After a long time, Zhao Liang also seemed to be brainwashed. He also felt that his mother's words were reasonable and reasonable, and that his wife was not satisfactory everywhere. In the face of the quarrel between his wife and his mother, he also prefers his mother, always blames his wife indiscriminately, and always asks his wife to let his mother take care of him. Stop being rude. Zhao Liang said this to Wang Xin many times. Facing the strange mother-in-law and the inactive and unreasonable husband, Wang Xin only felt that life was meaningless, and such a boring life was not what she expected. life, so she made up her mind to divorce her husband. It was not until after the divorce that Zhao Liang regretted it deeply. He never thought that his words and deeds would hurt his wife so much, but no matter how much he kept it, his wife was unwilling to reunite. But the mother-in-law didn't think so. She also vowed to her son: "Son, don't be afraid! She is a woman with a child, what can she do?" "She can't do anything, I see who wants her! Except for us No one else wants a daughter-in-law like this!" "Wait, she will definitely come back to find you to remarry!" Not only that, but the ex-mother-in-law also brazenly found her daughter-in-law, and said similar things, and even told her ex-daughter-in-law. : "Who else can you find if you don't remarry my son?! I see who wants you!" Facing such a rambunctious old woman, Wang Xin didn't bother with her much, and she didn't bother to spend more time with her, so she just told her Just wait and see. Later, shortly after Wang Xin's divorce, he reunited with his former junior high school male classmate. He also happened to be divorced because of emotional discord. The two have similar auras, and they can chat very easily. They often comfort and warm each other. The two knew each other very well before, and then they came together naturally. The man had no children, and he didn't mind her having a child. After getting to know each other's family, they soon decided to get married. So, after the ex-mother-in-law and Wang Xin talked, within two months, Wang Xin found the person who was more suitable for her, while the ex-mother-in-law was still waiting for her to come to ask for remarriage, but she didn't expect that she was about to come. Remarriage news. After learning the news, Zhao Liang and his ex-mother-in-law were both very disappointed and regretful, but there is no regret medicine in the world, and they have long regretted it at this time.

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It is normal to have conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, but the conflict is not insoluble. The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an extremely profound knowledge. Only the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law need to study, and the man in the middle also needs to know how to adjust and balance the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. One: The mother-in-law is too involved in the life of the young couple, which will only destroy the happy life of the son. Many mother-in-law are stumbling blocks in the marriage of the young couple, because some mother-in-law have a strong desire for control and possession of their son. He thinks that his son is very good, because he looks down on his daughter-in-law and is full of hostility towards her. With such a mother-in-law who makes things difficult for her daughter-in-law, it is inevitable that the relationship between husband and wife will break down. If mothers-in-law can be reasonable and communicate well with their daughters-in-law, the conflicts between mothers-in-law and daughters-in-law will naturally be reduced a little, but if they are unreasonable and messed up like Wang Xin's mother-in-law in the case, it will definitely lead to the breakdown of the son's marriage. Therefore, mothers-in-law had better be clear-headed and not always make things difficult for their daughter-in-law. Daughter-in-law is not the enemy. If the son-in-law’s marriage fails because of the conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law caused by his deliberate hardship, it will be useless to regret it later. Two: Men are the bridge between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Whether the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be harmonious depends entirely on whether the middle man will adjust. When a man gets married, in addition to supporting his family, he must learn to adjust the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and avoid conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Stabilize family relations and ensure family harmony. Men need to know that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are two unrelated people, because men who love together will have intersection and live together. Therefore, when there are conflicts and contradictions between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, it is more necessary for this man to adjust, to remain stable. In the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, the key to peaceful coexistence lies in this man. He will play a decisive role in this relationship. If mother-in-law and daughter-in-law coexist peacefully, only men can be impartial and treat conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law fairly and justly. , the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not feel that they are treated differently, and naturally they can gradually resolve the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. And this man needs to be a qualified messenger to help the mother and wife communicate their feelings. You must know that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are inherently prejudiced against each other, so some words are still conveyed by this man as husband and son. It can be the most secure, and it can also make it easier for both parties to accept. Therefore, whether the family can be harmonious and the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can be harmonious, the key point is whether there is a reasonable man in this family. A smart man will take the initiative to maintain the family relationship, actively adjust the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and improve the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. What he does, It's about protecting the happiness of your family. Text/Fenghua

(Responsible editor:Working women)

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