Hefei Marriage and Blind Date Tan: What is it like for a woman to marry a "little man" (three ordinary solutions)

time:2023-01-30 04:53:49 source:chloeaktas.com author:Graduate girl
Hefei Marriage and Blind Date Tan: What is it like for a woman to marry a "little man" (three ordinary solutions)

Hefei Love Couple Marriage Lesson: What is it like for a woman to marry a "little man" (three ordinary solutions)... People, I love you, but you have to be vigilant... Jie: In the current marriage market of Vochik, everyone has different opinions. What type of man a woman likes varies from person to person. For example: some women like the mature uncle type, and there are women who like the tender young meat type. Everyone has their own mate selection criteria and their own hardware requirements. But when love really comes, these so-called requirements may be greatly diluted, and loving each other is actually the most important thing. In reality, many women will choose to date with men who are older than themselves or about the same age, because they feel that such men are more tolerant and considerate of themselves. But there are also women who marry men younger than their own age. So if a woman marries a "little man", will the married life be happy? Let's listen to the voices of several people who have come here - the first Ms. Bao, 48 years old, and her eldest husband is 7 years old: She said that their husband and wife always quarrel, because the husband is naive, like an unsophisticated child, I don't know life at all, and I don't know how to take care of myself. Sometimes after a fight, he didn't talk to me for a few days, waiting for me to bow my head to coax him. When encountering difficulties in life and work, he either shirks it, or just follows his temperament without thinking. I taught him patiently, little by little, and he even taunted me from time to time as an "old woman" who would nag all the time, making my chest tight with anger. Sometimes I feel that I am both a wife and an old sister. While living a married life, I have to constantly enlighten him. She said that if she could choose again, she would never find a husband who was younger than her. I only now know that getting married is like investing. The type of person you choose is the path you choose, which determines the quality of your life in the future. There are many standards for measuring men, among which age proportionality is a very important factor. (The picture and text are edited by the network. Please correct me if there is anything wrong.) The second Ms. Cheng, 44 years old, her eldest husband is 11 years old: She said that her current husband used to be her subordinate. At that time, I had just divorced and was in a gap period. I got a little warmth from him, so I quickly got married. But after getting married, because of his young age, he pushed all the pressure from economics to daily life on me. I work overtime every day, and when I get home, I have to clean up, cook and take care of my baby. When he encountered a problem, he would push me in front of him, and there is nothing better than anyone who likes to take advantage of it. He has become the backbone of the whole family, and he has to rely on himself for many things, which is equivalent to raising another son. Sometimes I feel that I am much older than him, and I should do more things. For him, he always thinks that "the third female junior holds gold bricks", and he should rely on you for everything, and his thinking is in this level. Since marrying him, our identities have been reversed. He is always on the sofa, playing games all day long, or going out with friends and drinking. I want to be caught outside the house. To be honest, I'm really tired, and if I could do it all over again, I would definitely shy away from "Little Man". It’s true that women like young and handsome men. Even if they get along deeply, they can try, but they can’t get married impulsively. They must pass the test of falling in love and living together before deciding whether they are suitable for marriage. After all, marrying a woman is a kind of belonging to a woman. What you want to marry is a man who is worthy of your life. He must have the responsibility and responsibility of a man. In addition, he must have the basic ability to survive in order to give you a guarantee of safety. Otherwise, the harbor that you are looking forward to sheltering from the wind and rain will become the place where you experience the wind and rain. But now this is a dilemma, this is my original choice. But I don't know how long I can hold on to my exhausted body and mind. The third Ms. Wu, 39 years old, her eldest husband is 6 years old: She said that my parents always persuaded me and opposed me before marriage. It is said that a man is young, ignorant and immature, and he is a big wife when he married, and he has to serve his little brother, which is a difficult life. I did have such worries in my heart, but I closed my eyes and insisted on marrying. But the married life of the past six years has not let me down. I lived a prosperous life. Now the little baby has entered primary school, and he is ready to have a second treasure. I think I am more fortunate, I am very happy to be married to his "little man". He works hard and keeps getting promotions and raises. As a husband, he is also gentle and considerate, and I have never suffered any grievances and hardships. Although my mother-in-law didn't like me very much, he also reconciled with Zhou Xuan and took responsibility for himself. There is energy and romance in his young bones, and he always gives me all kinds of small surprises in life. He pays attention to the sense of ritual in life. It is not like we have been married for many years together, and it seems that we are still in a sweet love. Although he is 6 years younger than me, he is a very mature man mentally. I usually don't have to worry about anything in my life, he has taken everything into consideration for me. Sometimes I feel like I have become the little woman he spoils. After listening to the voices of the three women who came here, it is not difficult to find that the influence of age on marital happiness is actually due to the difference in men's personalities. The personality of this man is that he has a sense of family responsibility and determination in life, so he will do his best to create a warm home for his wife and children. No matter whether he understands it or not, he will study hard to adapt and build. Some people say that people will become more and more mature as they grow older, but this is not the case. Some men cannot bear the pressure of life. No matter how old they are, they will find excuses to escape. Therefore, it is not only age or other hardware that is important to a married person, but his personality. When a woman meets the right person, she can live a normal life. If you meet the wrong person, even the best days will be inseparable from being unhappy.

(Responsible editor:Housewife)

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