Most of the women who "stealed" have the following two things in common

time:2022-12-02 23:49:48 author:Working women
Most of the women who "stealed" have the following two things in common

Text / Ye Feifei yff picture / From the Internet I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional tutor, who writes heartfelt emotional words, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort. In reality, most women can be loyal and dedicated to their feelings. Once they identify a man, they will be with him for the rest of their lives. However, some women can't do it. After entering marriage, they will always become restless and indulge in feelings other than marriage and love. Such a woman will betray her feelings. There must be a reason for it, otherwise she will not gamble on the future with a lifetime of happiness. For example, they have had a lot of emotional experience in the past, and their emotions are overflowing, and they have long since ignored their feelings. Or, they have been hurt so deeply by men in their marriage that they have lost patience, and it is difficult for them to continue walking with men when they cannot see hope for the future. Therefore, they are particularly eager to meet a man who truly loves them outside and want to escape from their painful feelings. So, what is the reason for women "stealing people"? Generally speaking, most women who "steal people" have the following two commonalities:

First, they have experienced too many feelings, and they are not interested in cohabitation. Numbness

If a woman has experienced too many feelings in the past, she will gradually become casual, and she will no longer have such high expectations for men. Especially when I was in love before, I lived together too many times, I became numb, and I lost my longing for love. Such a woman can see through a man and feel that it is one thing to be with any kind of man. In their eyes, men are very realistic. Once there is no freshness, they do not cherish women, which has already hurt their body and mind. Therefore, the more feelings they experience, the less they expect from men. Even if they meet a man who truly loves them in the future, it will be difficult for them to change their minds. They feel that the relationship is just like that, the two sides are just getting what they need when they are together, and there is no feeling of love for a long time. Just like her friend Miss Xu, she is a delicate and beautiful woman. When she first fell in love, she thought she had met true love and loved her boyfriend wholeheartedly. However, when the two live together, the boyfriend doesn't pamper her at all, and within a month of cohabitation, the boyfriend is ambiguous with other people of the opposite sex. After Ms. Xu saw her boyfriend's true face, she reluctantly broke up, and then she no longer believed in love. In this way, Miss Xu later accepted the pursuit of many men. She had been in love seven or eight times and lived together every time. She was very casual about her relationship. As long as a man could pay for her, she didn't care whether she had true love or not. Finally, after she was 30 years old, she went to a blind date and married a man. It's just that her previous emotional experience hurt her so deeply that she was restless after marriage and had many ambiguous relationships with the opposite sex. Therefore, a woman has too many previous emotional experiences, cohabitation is numb, and even if she gets married in the future, it is difficult to be loyal, but if a man is provoked, she will betray her relationship.

Second, being hurt by a man in marriage, and seeing no hope for the future

In reality, some women will betray their feelings, most of which are hurt by men in marriage hurt. They are completely disappointed with men, can't see hope for the future, and have no confidence to go on. Therefore, they especially long for a man who can love them. If they meet such a man outside, they will easily be moved. Such a woman is not without the bottom line of feelings, but in marriage, being hurt again and again by men, she is completely heartbroken. For example, the man either disliked her or criticized her endlessly, and even often cold-warned her, beat and scolded her, and so on. Once a woman is hurt physically and mentally and has no expectations for a man, she will naturally look for other comforts and long to meet true love. My friend Ms. Hu and her husband have been married for eight years. They have been taking care of the family wholeheartedly, thinking that they will be happy, but they were very disappointed. Her husband is an office worker, with a monthly salary of less than 8,000, but he does not seek to make progress, and he looks like he will never see hope, which makes her very disappointed. Moreover, her husband often goes out with other people of the opposite sex, has no sense of responsibility for the family, and is simply unable to give her the stable life she wants. Whenever she persuaded her husband to make progress and not be ambiguous with other people of the opposite sex, her husband became impatient and disliked her nagging. Especially when two people quarrel, her husband will hurt her with words, or even do something to her. The long-term accumulated damage has made her completely give up. In this way, Ms. Hu gradually had contacts with her male colleagues in the same unit. The man loved her very much and thought of everything for her, and finally had an extramarital relationship. Therefore, women will betray their feelings, to a large extent, they will be heartbroken in marriage and have no expectations for men at all. Ye Feifei yff's emotional message: In conclusion, women "steal people" are mostly caused by these two reasons: experience too many feelings, numbness to cohabitation; being hurt by men in marriage, no hope for the future . This reminds men in reality to take more care of women and not let their body and mind be hurt. Otherwise, once a woman becomes tired of her relationship and has no expectations for the future, it is easy to breed other ideas. In short, except for those women who have a weak sense of morality, most women will betray their feelings because they have been let down and hurt by men. As long as women can live happily and be treated gently by men, they will not easily enter into extramarital affairs. Finally, remind men and women in reality that if they love, they must love with all their heart and soul, and don't let down their trust and true feelings. Whether it is love or marriage, we must abide by the bottom line of loyalty, so that we can have true happiness. END Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on creation and sharing in the emotional field, use emotions to communicate your heart and my heart, I hope you and I get to know each other here, please follow me if you like.

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