Smart women never show these three things in the circle of friends

time:2022-12-03 00:29:40 source:chloeaktas.com author:Girl
Smart women never show these three things in the circle of friends

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: From the Internet "Recently I had a blind date with a girl, she is very beautiful, I like it very much, but this woman always likes to show off, she has to buy expensive things, and she always likes to take pictures of anything valuable in my family. Showing off in a circle of friends makes me very worried, will she be a woman who worships money in vanity, and then completely destroys the whole family." Two days ago, a reader friend sent such a private letter. When I saw this private letter, the author remembered a sentence: "A family has a good wife and a husband and a husband will have few misfortunes." For this friend, his worries are actually normal, because this woman has a big problem herself. A woman who loves to show off and admire vanity is often not a smart and good partner. They all say: "Marrying the right woman will prosper for three generations, but marrying the wrong woman will ruin three generations." Marrying a woman who loves to show off is often the beginning of misfortune, because such a silly woman will ruin everything sooner or later. A really smart woman will only make the family better, and never show these three things in the circle of friends. Smart women never show off their wealth in the circle of friends. A few days ago, a piece of news that "a woman born in the 90s earns 80,000 yuan a month for her husband" became popular on the Internet. This young woman posted her husband's income certificate on a social account, showing a very straightforward display of wealth between the lines. According to the woman's own confession, her husband was born in 1993 and is a brokerage trader in a stock exchange, and the husband's monthly income certificate posted by him shows that the man earns 82,500 yuan a month. The woman's display, I thought she would be envied by others, and then completely satisfy her vanity, but how could she know that her behavior brought disaster to her family, and all the gains outweighed the losses. Because of this woman's show-off, it became a hot topic and went straight to the hot search. The final result was that her husband was forcibly fired for violating the company's non-disclosure agreement, directly ruining her husband's future. The act of showing off wealth often has no good results. Because when you show off your wealth, you also make many people with bad intentions staring at you. Just like the truth that wealth is not exposed. In addition, showing off your wealth will bring you all kinds of troubles. As the saying goes: "The world is bustling for profit, and the world is bustling for profit." No one asks about the poor in the busy city, and the rich have distant relatives in the mountains. Just like Zhu Zhiwen, the overcoat brother, when he became rich, all relatives came to him. Even if Brother Coat helped these relatives unconditionally, donated money and built roads, he still became a villain in the eyes of relatives. You see, the desires of the human heart are infinite, and they cannot be fully satisfied at all. It is the way of a wise man that wealth is not exposed. The principle of making a fortune in silence still applies today. If a person cannot restrain his desire to show off, he will destroy his family sooner or later. Smart women never show off their children in the circle of friends. Why don't parents show off their kids too much? There is a high praise answer on the Internet that said: "If you are okay, you will praise and show off all kinds of things. One is to put a lot of pressure on the child, and the other is to be annoying like those who show affection and show off their babies. If you lose one step in the future, you will lose the whole thing.” Life is a long run, and you never know what will happen in the future. Parents showing off their children excessively in the circle of friends will not only make people annoying, but also make children proud and complacent, and they will never look down on anyone from now on. Some children are precocious since childhood, but because their parents show off too much, they take a detour and ruin their whole life. And some children, who are dull since childhood, but rely on down-to-earth to change, and finally become late bloomers. If you speak too early, you will often be slapped in the face. Not only do the parents lose face, but the children have nowhere to be ashamed, and some children even give up on themselves to escape everything. Seeing this, some people may say that showing off children is not a compliment to children? How could it be wrong? But in fact, for those parents who love to show off, they are not to praise their children, but to satisfy their own vanity. They are often dissatisfied with their achievements, so they put all their hopes on their children, and hope that their children will stand out, so that they can be transformed into people. Their thoughts, although good, can put enormous pressure on children. Because children will think that if they don't meet their parents' expectations, then they are sorry for their parents, so they live as their parents see them, but have no self. When they wake up one day, they often don't blame themselves, they only blame their parents for not giving them the life they want, so they rebel against their parents. In fact, the heavy pressure parents impose on their children often only destroys the children, then harms others and themselves, and completely loses everything. Even if one day, the child succeeds and meets your requirements for him, but the child is in pain and does not recognize your parents. Do you think it is really worth it? When things happen to this point, not only will you not get the envy of others, but you will become a joke in the hearts of everyone, truly ruining the child and losing face, and it will be difficult for you to look up for a lifetime. From a psychological point of view, praising a child appropriately can increase self-confidence, but overly showing off a child will only harm the child. Smart women never show off their marital happiness to friends. Just like showing off to children, showing off about marriage and husband will actually put pressure on the husband. When your husband thinks he's not giving you happiness at all, they'll just think your show off is just cynicism at him. Weddings should go back to the basics, never compare and show off. Just like the wedding of the century between Huang Xiaoming and Yang Ying, how much sensation and excitement were there at the time, how ridiculous it is now. It is said that at the beginning of the wedding, many big people were invited, and the wedding cost 200 million yuan, which attracted the envious eyes of many people. But in the end, it ended in divorce. In fact, they will have such an ending, the author is not surprised. When a woman gets as many things as possible, the less things will satisfy her in the future. Human nature is the same, the higher the expectations, the greater the disappointment. The more a woman shows off her marriage, the more afraid of losing it, and the less the marriage will stand the test. The more one flaunts one's happiness, the more hated one will be. Just like the big truth: "I hope you have a good life, but I hope you have a better life than me." When your marriage is happy, maybe they will pretend to bless you. And when your marriage is unhappy, they will definitely get down on the ground. To be honest, few people who are not as good as you want you to live better than each other, so don’t bask in happiness easily; those who are better than you don’t have time to look at your happiness, so it’s meaningless to show off about marriage. . I have seen this sentence: "A beggar will not be jealous of a billionaire, but he is jealous of beggars with better income than him." The deepest hurt a person has suffered often comes from the people closest to him. Be low-key, There must be no harm to yourself. For women, if the marriage is happy, it's fine to have fun, only stupid women will really tell the world, causing jealousy and hatred. ——END Topic of the day: "Do you think it's right?"

(Responsible editor:Single woman)

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