"A large number of marriageable men are eliminated": the only child may be forgotten by society

time:2023-03-26 12:29:43 source:chloeaktas.com author:Working women
"A large number of marriageable men are eliminated": the only child may be forgotten by society

For a man, it is very important to inherit the lineage, because it is the continuation of a family. Many men who are ready for marriage will find a woman who is a housekeeper to create a happy family together, but in fact, many men It's really hard to find someone who is right for you. There are many reasons for this, because getting married is not a simple matter. In today's society, the proportion of men is higher than that of women, which means that in many cases, the ratio between men and women is not coordinated. Men do not have a certain strength. Then you can't find the person you like. A large number of marriageable men will be eliminated if they are not careful, and it is more likely for the only child. 01. Family pressure is high. As the only child in the family, all the responsibilities and expectations in family life will be placed on this man, and the family will also give him high expectations. If a man has too much pressure in real life, then There will also be anxiety inside. Because the family has high expectations for this, they will tighten their nerves in real life, and have very high requirements for their other half. In this way, marriage becomes a bondage. 02. The family spoils many only children too much. In fact, they are more spoiled in family life. Because there is only one child in the family, the family naturally has to hold it in their hands. But doing this for a long time will not only fail to make a person grow, but will make a person watered. The reason why many men become Ma Baonan is because they cannot be independent in family life, nor have their own thoughts, and their thoughts are not particularly mature, so it is difficult to maintain the happiness of a family. What a man needs to bear is the responsibility of the family. Every family has hard-to-read scriptures. This is the truth. Every family will have troubles in every family. The maintenance of a family does not depend on that one person. A family is not something a woman can support. A man is the backbone of the family. A man's ability determines the happiness of a family. In real life, you need to have the ability to think independently, so that when facing the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, you will not follow others' opinions. A man must learn to be the master of the house, so as to give a woman a sense of security. When you go to lead a family, you will find that in real life, there will be many problems that need to be dealt with, but in real life, many men do not have such ability, which will only escalate family conflicts. There are even some mamabao boys who will protect their parents regardless of their wives. What is the purpose of a woman getting married and having children? For the endless quarrel every day? Or for being wronged by a man? In today's society, women are becoming more and more independent. Many women have the ability to think independently, so when they face their own marriage, they will also pay more attention. Every woman wants to marry a mature Responsible and responsible man. In today's society, men and women are equal, and there are even many preferential treatments for women. When a man is not good enough, he will naturally not be valued by a woman. Why are so many men eliminated from the start? In fact, the answer is very simple, because this man cannot bring a woman a sense of solidity and peace of mind. A man must stand upright, filial piety is right, but he can't be filial. If a man can't handle his own family problems well in real life, he will also bring certain damage to his marriage. Such a man is actually incompetent in married life, because he can't give a woman peace of mind, and he can't handle family relations well. If a man wants to not be eliminated by society, he must have his own wisdom when facing marriage, because family is often the backing of our work and life, when there are too many contradictions in family life. time, then it means your backyard is on fire. At this time, if you want to have a happy living environment, it is a very difficult thing. I hope that every man can make himself more wise when facing family life. A man must have his own plans, so that he can create a better life for his wife and children. If he only cares about himself and is too selfish, then his marriage will fail. A man is the navigation of a family and the direction of a family. Only when a man walks the right way will the family life become happy and happy, and the family atmosphere will become more harmonious.

(Responsible editor:Single woman)

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