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Granddaughter did not wait for grandma to eat, daughter-in-law was slapped by mother-in-law, granddaughter 20 years later: double payment

time：2023-03-26 08:55:36 source：chloeaktas.com author：Girl

Granddaughter did not wait for grandma to eat, daughter-in-law was slapped by mother-in-law, granddaughter 20 years later: double payment

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In the past, many people had a patriarchal ideology, and they took it very seriously Heavy. Because they have not received modern education, they always feel that it is the responsibility of women that they cannot give birth to sons. Therefore, once her son and daughter-in-law fail to give her a precious grandson, she will try to harass her daughter-in-law and even abuse her granddaughter. She will feel that her daughter-in-law is a hen who can't lay eggs, that her granddaughter is an unlucky loser, and that her daughter-in-law and granddaughter have ruined the feng shui of the family. She felt that she was an elder, and the family had to decide by herself, teach the younger generation, and the younger generation had to suffer. She didn't think there was anything wrong with this. The daughter-in-law who had been a mother-in-law for many years, everyone came here like this. But she forgot that now is not the era of the past. In the past, if a family did not care for the elderly, they would definitely be drowned by the spit Xingzi, but now, there are many people who do not care for the elderly. She hasn't treated her daughter-in-law and granddaughter kindly, and she wants them to give her old age. How can there be such a good thing.

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An Nan's (pseudonym) grandmother is such an old man. An Nan's grandmother was born in a backward and feudal family, and later married into the same feudal family, and never escaped that circle in her life. Influenced by her family, An Nan's grandmother regarded the succession of the family as more important than her life. Because the people around her have the same thoughts as her, she didn't feel that there was anything wrong with her. Before marriage, she listened to her parents, and after marriage, she listened to her husband and in-laws. Her parents and in-laws beat her up, and she endured it all without complaining. She felt that this was the fate of women. She felt that her mission was to give birth to her husband's children. But no matter how hard she tried, she only gave birth to a son to her husband. Fortunately, it was a son. If it was a daughter, then she would have to apologize to death. Because there is only such a son, she regards her son as more important than her own life. She was counting on her son to carry on the line of the old An family. So, after her son graduated from college, she inquired about the girls in many ways, and wanted to find a daughter-in-law who could give birth. But her son disappointed her. The son brought her a daughter-in-law who was skinny as a monkey. She couldn't look at her body at first sight. But her son insisted that she had no choice but to agree to the marriage. She thought that when her daughter-in-law entered the door, she could stare at her daughter-in-law to eat more, so that when she grew strong, she would be able to give birth to a son. The daughter-in-law is indeed obedient. After marriage, she also gained weight according to her request, and later became pregnant with her child according to her wishes. But what was born was not the grandson she longed for, but a dead girl. This child is An Nan. In this regard, An Nan's grandmother was disappointed, but at that time, she felt that there was still hope. If the first child failed to give birth to a son, she would fight for the second child, and the second child would always give birth to a son. The daughter-in-law cooperated, taking medicine and taking medicine, and paying attention, but no matter how hard the couple tried, they could not give birth to a son. For five years, there is literally no news. In the past five years, because of failing to give birth to a son, An Nan's mother has been enduring difficulties from her mother-in-law. Sometimes, even An Nan will be abused by her mother. Two people have no dignity to live in this family. But An Nan's mother still never thought about getting a divorce or living apart from her mother-in-law. Because the mother-in-law regards her son as more important than her life, as long as she dares to mention it, the mother-in-law will die or live, and everyone will know it. So, she really didn't dare to mention the matter of living apart. Not to mention divorce, but for the children. But something happened after that made An Nan's mother change her attitude. That time, as usual, An Nan's mother made the meal and went to call her mother-in-law out for dinner. On that day, An Nan's mother happened to make An Nan's favorite sweet and sour pork ribs. When a child sees something he likes to eat, he will definitely be greedy, so An Nan couldn't help but put a piece in his mouth. This scene happened to be seen by An Nan's grandmother. Then An Nan's grandmother slapped her daughter-in-law several times on the grounds that her granddaughter didn't wait for her to eat. Said that the daughter-in-law did not take good care of her daughter, and taught her daughter no discipline at all. Then he started to scold his daughter-in-law for failing to give birth to a son to their Lao An family, making their Lao An family cut off their children and grandchildren. An Nan's grandmother scolded for a long time that day, and An Nan also cried for a long time. She remembered that her mother's face was swollen, while her father just lowered his head and pretended not to see it. At a young age, she knew that her father was unreliable, and she also knew that her grandmother was a bad person who bullied her mother and her. She knew even more that her mother had been staying at this home for her sake. When she returned to her room that day, she told her mother that she should divorce her father and take her out of the house. She said she could eat less and live less, she just wanted to be with her mother, and she never wanted to see her grandma and dad again. Maybe because of An Nan's words or because of An Nan's grandma's slaps, An Nan's mother moved out of the house with An Nan the next day. Later, after a long time, my mother told An Nan that she had divorced her father. An Nan is not sad, she doesn't like that home, she doesn't like that grandma, she likes to live with her mother. In this way, in the days that followed, her mother worked hard for her to go to school, she got admitted to a good university as she wished, and after graduating from university, she also found a good job. Her mother also moved with her to a house near her workplace. She thought that she would never interact with the people over there again. But grandma actually came over and asked them to give her old age. It was said that An Nan's father ran out and didn't care about her mother. Although 20 years have passed, An Nan is still fresh in his mind of the injuries he suffered at that time. She directly told her grandmother that she had a dog at home, but not her grandmother. If her grandmother insisted on staying here and didn't leave, she would pay double. Grandma was a little scared when she heard what An Nan said. She could only go back to her home in despair. When she couldn't move, she could only sell the house and enter the nursing home. Because no one came to visit, he also suffered a lot in the nursing home. In the end, when she was dying, she regretted that she should not treat her daughter-in-law and granddaughter that way. From this story, we can understand two truths.

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I. No matter how much you want a grandson, as a grandmother, don't put your anger on your daughter-in-law and granddaughter. The sins you have done will be retributed on yourself sooner or later. Some people, when they were young, relying on their status, relying on their good health, and they did not need to be served, they tried their best to spar with their daughter-in-law and granddaughter. He also desperately urged his daughter-in-law to give her a baby grandson as soon as possible. She felt that she did the right thing, but in fact, her daughter-in-law and granddaughter had long hated her. When she couldn't move and needed someone to take care of her, they would definitely not be willing to take care of her. So, no matter how much you want a grandson and become a grandmother, don't put your anger on your daughter-in-law and granddaughter. The sins you have done will be retributed on your own body sooner or later.

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II. As a junior, you should be filial to the elders, but if the elders are not kind and cause deep harm to the juniors, then the juniors don't need to force themselves to be filial to the elders. Many people think that juniors should be filial to their elders, and granddaughters should be filial to their grandmothers. But any relationship must pay attention to cause and effect. If the elders have devoted their feelings and energy to the younger generation, then the younger generation must be filial to the elders. But in the face of those who have hurt themselves, who can truly be filial to them? How to repay virtue with virtue is the way of doing things in contemporary people. Regardless of blood relationship, if someone treats you well, you should treat others well, and if someone hits you, you should "return your grievance directly". Therefore, as a junior, you should be filial to the elders, but if the elders are not kind and cause deep harm to the juniors, then the juniors do not need to force themselves to be filial to the elders. Text/Fenghua

(Responsible editor：A solitary woman)

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