A woman who abandoned her husband and children for her parents' family, her parents left nothing for her after a hundred years, she is very chilled

time:2023-01-30 05:20:05 source:chloeaktas.com author:Graduate girl
A woman who abandoned her husband and children for her parents' family, her parents left nothing for her after a hundred years, she is very chilled

01 When a person gets married, he must focus on the small family. On the basis of taking good care of the small family, the original family should be properly taken care of. If a person can't hold his own position, stretches his hand too far, and takes too much responsibility, he will end up not being a person inside or outside. In a multi-child family, after a woman is married to her in-law's family, she has to deal with the relationship with her parents' family and her in-law's family. Don't be in Cao Ying and have Han at heart. If you are in your in-law's house and your heart is in your mother's house, you can't take care of both sides. If there are still brothers and sisters in the family, then the out-married woman can only regard the family as her own and the family as relatives. It sounds unpleasant, but when it comes to marriage in the old traditions, it's the reality. If you are the only child in the family, this is not the case, the family will always be your own. 0260-year-old Mao Xiang told her story, tears welled up in her eyes. She gave everything for her family, but in the end, her family gave her a chill. The 24-year-old Mao Xiang was introduced by a neighbor and met her husband who was two years older than her. After they had a blind date, they felt good and started dating. After dating for more than a year, the two got married smoothly, and the marriage was done according to the old tradition. Mao Xiang is the eldest daughter in the family, and there are two younger brothers and a younger sister, so her parents married Mao Xiang. The second year after Mao Xiang married her husband's family, she gave birth to a big fat boy, and her husband's family was overjoyed! For Mao Xiang, her husband's family is very satisfied except that she cares too much about her family. Mao Xiang is very caring about her parents' family. She goes back to her parents' home every three days to help her with her work and deliver things to her. After Mao Xiang gave birth to her son, her husband thought that her heart would be placed on her son and that she would value their small family. But Mao Xiang left the child to her mother-in-law to take care of, but she still cared about her mother's family, and her mother's family came first in her heart. The reason why Mao Xiang paid special attention to her mother's family was that her family's situation was not very good. The year before Mao Xiang got married, her father injured his waist when he went to work in the ore quarry, and he could no longer do heavy work. My mother worked in a small private factory and could not earn any money at all, but my younger siblings were studying and needed money. 03 Mao Xiang posted all the money she earned from work to her parents' family, but she still couldn't fill the hole in her parents' family, so she used her husband's money. Because of this, the couple often quarrel, and the husband feels that their small family also has to spend money. The children grow up every day, and there are many places to spend money! But Mao Xiang felt that her maiden family was important, and her son was still young, so she didn't need to think so far now. When his son was one year old, the eldest brother also joined the work, but the salary was very low, so Mao Xiang had to continue to support the second brother and the younger sister. After Mao Xiang was married for 5 years, her husband couldn't take it anymore and filed for divorce. Mao Xiang didn't think much about it, and agreed immediately. She felt that it was better to get divorced and to take care of her parents' family more conveniently. Mao Xiang divorced her husband and moved back to her parents' home. With the help of Mao Xiang, the eldest brother got married and started a family, and the younger brother went to college. After graduating from college, he stayed in the field to work. My sister didn't go to university, she met a young man when she went to work in the city, and she got married to the city. After the younger brothers and sisters had their own lives, Mao Xiang's burden finally eased, but at this time her parents were paralyzed on the bed. Mao Xiang took on the responsibility of taking care of her parents without hesitation, so that her younger siblings could have no worries. 04 In order to take care of her family, Mao Xiang never remarried. The son married his ex-husband, who later remarried, and Mao Xiang never saw his son again. First, she was too busy to take care of her son; secondly, she felt divorced from her ex-husband, so she didn't want to go to her ex-husband's house anymore. Later, my parents died one after another, and my mother died a year earlier than my father. When the father died, he left a will, saying that the house was left to the son according to the old rules, and the 10,000 yuan deposit was also divided equally between the two sons. The parents left nothing for Mao Xiang, the younger siblings were busy with their own lives, and no one took care of Mao Xiang. When dealing with his father's estate, the second brother sold his half of the house to the older brother at a discount because he didn't plan to go back to his hometown. The eldest brother is also an old man. He listens to his son and daughter-in-law. The son and daughter-in-law decided to demolish the old house and build a new one, so they asked Mao Xiang to move out quickly. Where can Maoxiang move to? She had nowhere to go, and it was only now that she realized how sad her situation was. It stands to reason that raising children is the responsibility of parents, but Mao Xiang has been fulfilling the responsibility of raising children for her parents for so many years, but she has not raised her own children. Later, when it was time for his younger siblings to support their parents, Mao Xiang was doing filial piety for them again. But after the death of her parents, she left all her property to her son, not thinking about her divorced daughter at all. Mao Xiang thought of her son, but because she had done nothing for him for so many years, his son did not recognize her at all. Later, Mao Xiang went to rent a private house and lived alone. 05Mao Xiang devoted her life to her family, but in the end she found that she had nothing. In the hearts of parents, the son is always the first. In their opinion, the daughter has been married, and the daughter who is married is pouring out the water. Regardless of whether the daughter is divorced or not, she is no longer a member of her family, and her family's property is naturally left to her son. Mao Xiang helped her younger brother and sister to do filial piety, but her younger brother and sister did not appreciate her contribution, they only cared about their own lives. After their parents passed away, the two younger brothers shared the 10,000 yuan left by their parents equally, and dealt with their parents' old house. No one thought about Mao Xiang. Mao Xiang once had a happy little family, but she did not cherish it, but spent her time, energy and money on her native family. When her family of origin disappeared, she became homeless and alone. Some women are confused, and like Mao Xiang, they work hard all their lives, but in the end they end up in a bleak evening. Therefore, when a person gets married, he must focus on his own small family, distinguish the priority and the priority, and plan for the future.
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