The 10-year-old husband of the AA system said, "My mother is sick, you can take 100,000"-chloeaktas.com

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The 10-year-old husband of the AA system said, "My mother is sick, you can take 100,000"

time：2023-03-26 13:17:44 source：chloeaktas.com author：Graduate girl

The 10-year-old husband of the AA system said, "My mother is sick, you can take 100,000"

A real female awakening is irreversible. Once awakened, once you realize the power contained in yourself, and once you get used to the breath of freedom, you can't go back. Just like those who have seen the sun, those who are warmed by the sun will never return to the dark and cold corners. Marriage is also, if you can give yourself warmth, then why bother yourself. Reader: Sister Liu, 39 years old, and her husband have always been AA, and have been doing this for ten years after their marriage. It's a late marriage, at least in this fifth-tier city. Married at the age of 29, she is already considered a big girl in the eyes of others. I met my husband on a blind date, and I didn’t like him very much. I don’t think he liked me very much either. He was three years older than me, and the family was in a hurry at that time. On the basis of not hating each other too much, under the urging of both parents. It was a quick marriage. There are not many things that need to be prepared for marriage. My parents gave me a small house, and my name is written in full, and I live here temporarily. He also has a house that he bought with a loan and rented out. The rent is used to repay the mortgage, which is almost overpaid. I don't care whether his house has my name or not, after all the down payment was before his marriage. Then it has been AA all the time, and it belongs to me to make money and spend it myself, and I don’t want to be restrained by the other party. Because of the work relationship, most of the time we eat in our own cafeteria, and occasionally we eat together on weekends. You pay for a meal and I pay for a meal. Go back to both parents' houses, and whoever goes back will buy some fruit or something. As for the water and electricity bills, I pay, but my husband will pay for the Internet, and occasionally the unit will give me some phone cards. When I had a child five years ago, he gave me 2,000 per month for my child's expenses. Of course, 2,000 is not enough for things. It is almost seven or eight thousand recently, and the educational expenses are a bit large, but I will not ask him to take more, because I have enough. Ask him to take it, but he may not give it. He always feels that the classes I signed up for are purely spending money and are meaningless. Whose family is well-mannered, whoever pays. Once I was on a business trip and asked his representative to go to a relative of my family to drink birthday wine, and he packaged a red envelope of 1,000. I turned around and told me no less than three times, I finally realized it, and transferred 1000 to him. He answered it in seconds and didn't say more. I will buy him about 1000 clothes every quarter, but since he got married, he should have bought me a 4000 mobile phone, and there is no other. There are no gifts for Chinese New Year. All his money should be used for stock speculation. In recent years, the situation has not been very good, and he should have lost money. Not long ago, my mother-in-law fell ill. He said that all his money was covered by stocks, and I paid 10,000 yuan for hospitalization. Later, the money for the surgery was not enough, and he asked me to pay another 100,000 yuan. I said, what about your own money? He said he can't get it for now. I said that my money is also prepared for the baby, there is not a lot, if I give you 100,000, it will be gone. So refused. He was a little unhappy. Later, he probably asked someone else to borrow it. He has been very cold to me since then. Are you saying that it was my fault? Written on the back: In China and the world, getting married for most people means that "family" becomes the smallest economic unit, not an individual. The AA system within marriage is precisely to divide the economic subject of the family into two separate interest subjects. It sounds like there's nothing wrong with it, but it actually breaks the meaning of marriage, especially with such a small calculation, it's really chilling. This husband's approach was inherently problematic. He didn't give much, but asked for a lot. This is even more disgusting. As the so-called independence is a good word, but two people in a marriage are too independent, and they even only think about themselves, it is inevitable that they will be alienated. Discussion: Do you think it is wrong to refuse the request made by this husband?

(Responsible editor：Housewife)

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