The more willing a man is in these three places, the more money he can make

time:2023-03-26 12:32:00 source:chloeaktas.com author:Divorced women
The more willing a man is in these three places, the more money he can make

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: Sourced from the Internet "When I am middle-aged, I become more and more anxious, my wife is more and more irritable, and the money is becoming more and more difficult to earn. With the increasing competition, the risk of unemployment is also increasing. , what should I do? Is it too late to learn new things now? Please give me some advice, thank you!" A reader friend sent such a private letter two days ago. When I saw this private letter, I felt the same way. When a person reaches middle age, the pressure is increasing day by day. There are old people who need to support, and young people who need to nurture them. The responsibility on the shoulders of men is huge, and they cannot bear any bumps. The same is true, as middle-aged men become more and more anxious, they are not only afraid of losing their jobs, but also afraid that they will not be able to bear the responsibility of the family. As a result, the man began to fall into the predicament of life, and he did not know how to step out. For this friend, if he wants to solve the predicament, there is only one way to go, and that is to change himself hard, step out of his comfort zone, and accept learning new things. For life, middle age is only a small stage of life, and the future is still long, so it must not be too late to change at this moment. If a man wants to make money, he must learn to be willing. In fact, the more willing a man is in these three places, the more money he can make. A man must be willing to invest in himself. Buffett once said: "There is an investment that is more valuable than all other investments, and that is to invest in yourself. No one can take away what you have learned from yourself. Everyone has this investment potential." Many men in reality, They are reluctant to invest in themselves, thinking that everything is unnecessary. But in fact, in this increasingly competitive society, if men do not continue to invest in improving themselves, sooner or later, they will lose their competitiveness and be completely replaced by latecomers. Only by investing in yourself and making yourself better can you gain a foothold in this society. In the end, you have to rely on yourself. A man has no strength, how can he take responsibility, and what can he give to your beloved woman for the future. Men, just focus on improving yourself, when your career gets better and better, all difficulties will be solved. Some people say: "If a man wants to make money, he needs to socialize more, and don't keep himself at home." But in fact, if a man is incapable of himself, then no matter how much he socializes, it will be ineffective and just a waste of time. All relationships are actually a matter of interest. If you don't have what other people need, then if you stick it on other people's faces, they won't pay attention to you at all. And if you have the ability, even if you are arrogant, someone will take the initiative to come to you. Because no one can live with interests, this is a society of interests. When you haven't reached a higher level, the network is worthless, and the network is not pursued, but attracted. Instead of being obsessed with illusory relationships, it is better to manage yourself well and stand up by your own strength. Instead of spending more on material pursuits, it is better to spend more on investing in knowledge and see the world. Mencius said: "Confucius climbed Dongshan Mountain and became Xiaolu, and when he climbed Taishan Mountain, he made small the world. Therefore, it is difficult for those who watch the sea to be the water, and those who swim in the gate of the sages are difficult to say." When you are strong enough, everything will come naturally. There is an old saying, "Lingshen often has dragons, and Wugao has its own phoenix habitat". As long as people have strength, they don't need to brush their presence, and their connections will follow. Only if you have enough strength is your greatest confidence. Dependent on anyone, it is impossible to make oneself stable in life, people have to rely on themselves in this life. For men, only if they are willing to invest in themselves can they really make money. Men are willing to be healthy in order to make big money. As the old saying goes, the body is the capital of the revolution. In this regard, I am convinced. No matter how much money a man earns, a healthy body is not more important. Because only in good health can a man continue to create wealth and enjoy life. Once the health of the body is gone, then everything is gone. Especially for men in ordinary families, if their health is gone, it is the beginning of a huge disaster. Because "there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time." Even the filial children will break out in endless torture, and then the two sides will tear up all decency. In order to save the last decent in old age, only have a healthy body. One report shows that 60% of people spend 60% of their life savings in the last 28 days of life. In fact, for ordinary people, maintaining good health is actually making a lot of money. We must not do things that exchange our health for money, because this must be a thing that outweighs the gains. We can work hard, exercise and relax, sharpen knives without chopping firewood, and a healthy body can make you go farther and stand taller. A man can make a lot of money if he is willing to his wife. There is a good saying: "How far a man can go depends largely on his wife." A man's success must be inseparable from the support of women. When a man meets the right woman, his entire career is very smooth! A virtuous and wise woman can help a man, and a man who has such a good wife is the greatest success in life. Because the wife's trust and encouragement to her husband is the biggest driving force for her husband to move forward. Therefore, if a man wants to be successful, he must be willing to be good to his wife. Family and talent can make everything prosperous, husband and wife are of one mind, and their strength is broken. When the wife is happy, the family can be harmonious, and when the family is harmonious, the man can pursue success without hesitation. Otherwise, a piece of chicken feathers in the family can make a man useless. Families without husbands and wives can never truly succeed. Because the former gets twice the result with half the effort, the latter gets twice the result with half the effort. Husbands and wives should support each other, not drag each other down. A good wife can help him and reduce obstacles in his career, but if his wife is not good, he will only kill the man. Men must learn to be willing to their wives, because only in this way can they truly become rich. In addition, the family is shared by two people, and men should take the initiative to help their wives share housework when they have time, instead of thinking that it is a woman's obligation. When you help your wife share, then the wife will also think about you. Be kind to the wife around you, dig out her strengths, then encourage and magnify them, you will find that the world is so beautiful. Of course, behind a successful man, there will always be a sensible and wise helper; and behind a successful woman, there will also be a strong husband. The two support each other, and the family will become more and more prosperous. ——END Topic of the day: "Do you think it's right?"

(Responsible editor:Single woman)

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