When people reach middle age, men come to flirt with you, mostly for the purpose of drawing three things

time:2023-03-26 12:47:27 source:chloeaktas.com author:Housewife
When people reach middle age, men come to flirt with you, mostly for the purpose of drawing three things

Text / Ye Feifei yff picture / From the Internet I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional tutor, who writes heartfelt emotional words, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort. Balzac said: "Actually pretended love is more perfect than real love, which is why many women are deceived." This is very realistic. Some men have sex with women, but they don't actually pay their sincerity. Everything is It's just camouflage. Especially when people are middle-aged, men's love has long been impure. When they go out to flirt with women, they don't even think about taking responsibility. In the hearts of men, it may be just for a moment of freshness, or to meet certain needs, but never truly love a woman. When dealing with women, once they succeed, they will leave without a trace of nostalgia, and they are very heartless. This requires women to be vigilant and not to easily believe the sweet words of men. You must know that a middle-aged man who comes to flirt with you and has half-hearted intentions is just a tool for dewy love. Therefore, women must keep a clear head at all times and learn to identify men so as not to be hurt emotionally. After all, when a man is middle-aged, when a man comes to tease you, it is mostly for the sake of these three things, and you should stay away when you encounter it.

First, like to talk about love, in order to show your beauty

When people reach middle age, it is not true that men go out to flirt with women I love you very much, but to covet your beauty. In their eyes, as long as they are beautiful, they will be moved and eager to pursue them. However, they won't really be with you, they just want to play with you, and when they get it, they will leave you. In order to dispel your concerns, they will pretend to be in love with you, be very affectionate, and like to say a lot of sweet love words. At this time, if you do not have certain principles and bottom lines, it is easy to be fooled and fall into unworthy feelings. After all, men in this period have long been impure about their feelings, and their affectionate disguise is all to get you. You think that you have found true love, but in fact it is just a tool for a man to release his emotions, and it will not be cherished at all. In itself, there is no true love other than marriage and love. Men after middle age have already had families. They come to flirt with you, and what their purpose is, they must know each other well. This requires women to learn to protect themselves, to know self-esteem and self-love, and not to trust men's love words. No matter how beautiful his mouth is, he can't be responsible for you, and he can't give you the happiness you want, so it's not worth continuing to consume. Instead of worrying about gains and losses in a relationship, it is better to leave as soon as possible and stay away from this kind of scumbag who is not pure in his mind, so as to avoid being hurt.

Second, seek a stimulus to satisfy one's own emotional desires

When people reach middle age, men have already experienced the tempering of feelings and life, and gradually get used to the dullness life. However, some men can't stand loneliness at this time and want to go out to seek a thrill in order to satisfy their emotional desires. So, they go to flirt with women, hoping to make their feelings fluctuate a little and add some waves to the dull life. When they get along with women, they do not give their sincerity, but get freshness from women and feel that this kind of love is very exciting. This kind of man knows what he is doing very well, but he can't stop. It is nothing more than indulging in an exciting relationship and unable to extricate himself. Furthermore, for middle-aged men, they are tired of living a life of living without firewood, rice, oil and salt, and their long-silent marriage makes them feel very aggrieved. Therefore, they need to go out and find a woman to fill the emptiness in their hearts, and want to satisfy and release their emotions through stimulating love. This is why many middle-aged men are addicted to relationships outside of marriage and never want to quit. They are immersed in romantic love and can't stop. However, no matter how addicted men are, they will not be responsible for women. They will not give up their marriage. When the novelty wears off and they feel no longer exciting, they will gradually leave. Therefore, women must not believe in the love of middle-aged men. In fact, when he talks about feelings with you, he is actually seeking a thrill, and he has never truly loved you. If you take it seriously, you will definitely lose a crushing defeat in the end, because if you talk about love and talk with this kind of man with impure feelings, you will lose all of yourself, and it is not worth it.

Third, men with bad intentions and want to "deceive money and sex"

Most of the men after middle age are working hard for their families, hoping to make their families live better happiness. However, there are some men who have bad intentions and have no ability. They always want to get money from women, and they are especially calculating. They come to flirt with you, in fact, they don't really love you, but they calculate money from you in order to achieve their own goals. When you believe his words, it is easy to be bullied, not only physically and mentally hurt, but also a huge loss of money, which is a pity. Therefore, women must be cautious when interacting with men after middle age. Once they find something abnormal, they must stop the loss in time. There is an elder sister in the community who met such a man with bad intentions, which deserves the vigilance of all women. This eldest sister is very delicate. She divorced her husband when she was 42 years old. She didn't plan to find another partner and wanted to live quietly. However, under the introduction of the enthusiastic person, she still took the initiative to participate in a blind date and met a man. The 46-year-old man has a job with a monthly salary of more than 7,000 yuan. He is also divorced. On the surface, he looks very honest, but in fact he has bad intentions. After he had a blind date with this eldest sister, he was very satisfied with her, so he took the initiative to pursue her and behaved very diligently. He often went to her house to help her cook and do housework. After the two had been dating for a few months, the man began to show his true colors and wanted to come and live with her, saying that he would take good care of her. However, when he really came over, he was not as diligent as before, and he often asked the eldest sister to borrow money, each time for different reasons, so he borrowed hundreds of thousands of dollars before and after. Later, the eldest sister gradually realized that the man did not love her at all, but coveted her money, and regretted it in his heart. He really lost his life and lost money. Therefore, when a woman faces a middle-aged man who comes to flirt with you, she must be cautious. Once she finds that he has bad intentions and likes to plot against you, she must leave decisively. Ye Feifei yff's emotional message: To sum up, when people reach middle age, men come to tease you, mostly for the following three things: like to talk about love, to show your beauty; to seek a stimulus to satisfy one's own emotional desires; to be intentional Bad, want to "swindle money and cheat sex". When a woman is in a relationship, she must keep a sober head at all times, and don't trust a man's sweet words. Many times, when men come to flirt with you, they don't want to be responsible, let alone give their sincerity. If you are not careful, when you are let down, everything will be too late. In a word, for men after middle age, it is best for women not to entangle, no matter how much he loves you, don't blindly interact. When men reach a certain age, their feelings are not pure anymore, especially those men with families, they are even more unwilling. They betrayed their other half to talk about love with you, which is not true love at all. Therefore, women should stay away from men who are not worthy, so that they will not be hurt. END Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on creation and sharing in the emotional field, use emotions to communicate your heart and my heart, I hope you and I get to know each other here, please follow me if you like.

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