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After the woman got married, her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were at odds. She chose to turn a blind eye to her lover

time：2023-03-26 13:11:54 source：chloeaktas.com author：A solitary woman

After the woman got married, her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law were at odds. She chose to turn a blind eye to her lover

All along, I didn't intend to get married because I was terrified of those complicated relationships. But after I met my husband, I fell into a trap. He has a strong and tall figure, looks like the type I like, and his occupation is also my favorite. He is the deputy director of the police station. Human beings are social animals, if you stay alone for a long time, you will definitely suffer from depression. Marriage is a contract signed by two lonely men and women. They do not abandon each other, do not give up, no matter whether they are rich or poor, whether they are healthy or sick, they can do it. Marriage is also a physical need. The continuation of the offspring, through the union of each other and the bloodline of the birth, brings men and women closer together. A good partner can relieve half of the suffering of life. They shield each other from the wind and rain, and support each other all the way forward. If your other half can't bring you safety, but he himself is the wind and rain, then you should stop your losses in time and get rid of him, otherwise your life will be full of miserable winds and rains, and you will trudge in the helpless mud all your life , cannot move forward easily. Take myself, for example, my significant other treats me well and can provide me with high emotional value. I was born in 1998 and I work in a public institution in Jiangxi. My parents run a small company with an annual income of about 1 million! My husband is the deputy director of the police station. He was born in 1996. His parents are dual-earners, his father is in a public institution, and his mother is in a bank. We met at a friend's dinner party. He seemed to fall in love with me at first sight, and I became interested in him at once. When he asked for my contact information, he added my WeChat, and my heart was sweet. Yes, we chatted on WeChat for a few days. From the beginning of a question and answer, it became a conversation. Then he invited me for coffee. After drinking coffee, we went to the movies together, and after watching the movie, he sent me home. It doesn't seem to waste any time. Two days later, he invited me to his house for dinner again. The husband's parents were also very warm to me. After getting a table of dishes, the relationship was settled. Later, he often asked me to go to his house for dinner, so they got along fairly well. . We got engaged at the end of August 2020, and we agreed on a dowry of 180,000 yuan. Before the engagement, my husband took me to buy three golds, bracelets, bracelets and necklaces totaling over 4w. He came to the door and my parents gave 18000, his parents gave 2w. After we got engaged, we started living together. But what I didn't expect was that his salary was all handed over to her mother, and she had to ask her mother for his own expenses, and then told me that he had no money and no money, and said that we should not eat out often in the future. He also said that I would hand over the salary to his mother in the future. I didn't want to. He said that we are all adults, so the salary will be handed over to me. Why should it be handed over to your mother? Actually, I am very concerned about this. I think he's Ma Baonan, and we had a fight about it. After that, he had to tell his parents about our quarrels. I went to his house for dinner many times. I was also shocked that his parents knew about the trivial matters in his colleagues’ homes, because it was a special case of the grassroots police. Because of my status, I can’t go home every day, and sometimes I’m with me even when I’m not on duty. There is nothing wrong with him, but he is too dependent on his mother. I regret it a little for these things. I don't want to marry him. So, I broke up with him. He didn't want to break up, so he compromised with me, saying that he would give me his salary in the future. And just like that, we got married. After all, I like him very much, he is handsome and has a great body. But because we didn't give our salary to my mother-in-law, just for this, my mother-in-law had a big opinion on me. My mother-in-law said that you spend a lot of money. If you give it to me, where will I use your money? With such a high retirement salary of mine, these will be yours in the future. When I was pregnant, my mother-in-law didn't say anything, and she didn't want to take care of my confinement after I gave birth to a pair of twin sons. Later, my mother came to serve me. The mother-in-law's reason was that she hadn't taken care of the children for a long time, and they were twins again, and she was afraid that she would not be able to take care of them. Sometimes when she comes to see the child, she is unwilling to change the diaper when she sees the child urinates. It made me hate my mother-in-law so much. The clothes I bought for her on Mother's Day, she said yes to her face, and she never wears them when she comes home. I gave birth to a pair of twin sons, my mother gave a gold bracelet by herself, and my mother-in-law gave a thousand yuan for each child. From my husband's point of view, I don't care about her, and I don't live with her anyway. I think it's a headache to have such a mother-in-law, but I'm still polite to her. I regret that my mother-in-law brought me all the wind and rain in my life. If I had known that my mother-in-law was such a person, I might not have married my husband. Since the raw rice has been made into cooked rice, I have no choice but to It's over. My husband told me that my mother-in-law has saved more than 3 million yuan, so I don't want to be too stiff with my mother-in-law. What should I do if she doesn't leave us with her money? I said the twin sons are not her grandsons? You have to donate to the society, how can there be such a mother-in-law?

(Responsible editor：Divorced women)

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