Most of the women who are looking for a "lover" outside have the following two things in common

time:2023-01-30 05:19:14 source:chloeaktas.com author:Girl
Most of the women who are looking for a "lover" outside have the following two things in common

If one day, you choose to get married, then you must find someone you love, rather than living your life just to get things done. If one day, you choose to divorce, I hope you are in pursuit of happiness, not a momentary impulse, marriage is not easy, I hope everyone can do it and cherish it. But no one wants to get married for divorce. The reason why some people find a "lover" is because they can't be cared for in a relationship. Most of the women who are looking for a "lover" outside have the following two commonalities. 01. Not valued by her husband: I heard a reader talk about a love story about him: My husband and I have very different educational backgrounds, she is a doctor, and I am a junior college student. Because of the huge difference in knowledge, he knows more than I have too many, and every time I am amazed, I will say: "You are so amazing, you know this." But every time he smiles and says to me: "I just knew a little bit earlier than you, Now I'm telling you, do you know it too." I really like this set of my husband, because he gives me the feeling that he is very humble and not so arrogant. In fact, all a woman wants in a relationship is the patience of a man. When a man loses patience with her, her heart will become empty. When we were angry when we were young, we would lock ourselves in the room without eating or drinking, but when we grew up, we realized that this trick only worked for our mothers. In fact, this tells us that in this world, except for parents who really love you, all people are weighing the pros and cons. When a woman is not treated well in a relationship, then she must be lonely, and she cannot even find any sense of existence in this man. A good lover can alleviate the suffering of the world. When a woman can be loved in a love life, then the love will become long. If a woman is not loved, then the road of love will only become getting harder. The status quo of many couples in modern times is that they act in front of outsiders during the day, and when they return home at night, they live their marriages like strangers, and such marriages will not be happy. People are for love, and money is for use. Sometimes, many people just confuse the two. A psychologist once said: "All intimacy stems from needs." When two people first met, they would be attracted to each other because of their novelty, but after being together for a long time, the feelings between the two people Lost passion, at this time, love will disappear, if you are not needed by the other party, then the love between you will also disappear. 02. There is no sense of belonging in marriage: what is love? Love is when a man has nothing, a woman is still willing to marry him. So what is affection? Family love is that your parents will never let you marry a man who has nothing. In fact, the reason why parents do this is not because they dislike the poor and love the rich, but they know that marriage requires firewood, rice, oil and salt, and time will consume passion. For a woman, the most important thing in marriage is the sense of belonging. In the past, when I was driving, I always liked to drive the wrong way, but my husband never complained, he only comforted me by saying, let's take a look at the scenery. After giving birth, every time I cook, I forget to turn on the rice cooker, but he always happily cooks noodles with me. At that time, I was thinking, maybe this is the true meaning of married life. With my husband, I can truly feel a sense of belonging. From him, I can see dependence. Although there will be conflicts and disputes between us, he will always smile and say to me, "It's okay." What can marriage bring to a woman? In fact, there are not many. A good marriage can make a woman feel a sense of belonging, and a bad marriage will only make a woman fall into an endless abyss. In fact, when a woman is in a relationship, what she wants is not much material, but the stability that a man brings to her. Husbands and wives should help each other instead of complaining about each other. As a husband, give your wife a little more patience, because only in this way will the relationship between you become more harmonious. When a woman finds a sense of belonging in you, then your life will become happier, if she can't find sustenance in you, then one day, the love between you will gradually gradually of dissipation. Amir once said: "If you hate the smell of cigarettes, you should find a non-smoking love partner from the beginning, instead of asking the other party to quit smoking for you..." The truth of marriage is to grow and support each other , to leave a certain value to the other party. Only when you can think about problems from each other's perspective will you truly understand that love is to support each other. In a relationship, a woman actually doesn't want much. A man's love and tolerance is happiness.

(Responsible editor:A solitary woman)

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