"Mother scolded my husband for asking him for dowry money, and I dragged her into the blacklist"

time:2022-12-03 00:26:02 source:chloeaktas.com author:Girl
"Mother scolded my husband for asking him for dowry money, and I dragged her into the blacklist"

01 When it comes to family affection, we will think of some very warm words, what is like the warm sun in winter, what is a safe haven that can make you empty, what is the most beautiful emotion in the world. However, not all family relationships are warm, and there is another kind of family relationship that you don’t want to mention, so you can’t wait to have nothing to do with them. They are your relatives by blood, but what they do makes you feel cold. through. "What about your husband's dowry money? Which one of us doesn't have dowry money for marrying a daughter? Are you stupid? You turned your elbows out and married yourself like this. Is it a loss? How did I give birth to such a white-eyed wolf? Daughter..." During the video call, the mother used all kinds of unpleasant language to abuse Tian Ni and her husband, and Tian Ni couldn't bear it anymore and hung up the video. This is not enough, she thought about it again, looked at her mother's circle of friends, and some voices her mother often sent her. After listening, she decided to directly drag her mother's WeChat into the blacklist. list. How many times, it is really unwilling to disturb. As for what happened to her parents in the future, please call her directly. Anyway, she doesn't want to add her mother's WeChat, nor does her father's WeChat, so let them stay on the blacklist, what family group? Do they consider Tian Ni as family? Or think of Tian Ni as an ATM? Tian Nico is not stupid. She knows whether her parents love her or not, and how they treat her. In fact, when Tian Ni got married, it wasn't that her husband didn't give the dowry money, but the dowry money was directly credited to Tian Ni's card. The 100,000 yuan was all her husband's money. Her husband meant, "This money belongs to Tian Ni, let her handle it." Tian Ni originally wanted to tell her parents, but thinking about how her parents treated her for so many years, she backed off. Is it necessary to tell the parents? Let her parents know about this, will the money still be in her hands? She got married, but her parents never thought about giving a dowry. Tian Ni didn't tell her parents about the dowry money, mainly because her parents placed too much emphasis on sons and daughters. Her younger brother got married earlier than her. The younger brother spent millions on marriage, buying a house and a car; but when Tian Ni asked her parents how much dowry she planned to give her, the parents replied directly: What do you want? dowry? I have to ask your future husband for dowry money? Do you still want a dowry? Is it easy for me to raise you that big? Look around us, which one is not a betrothal gift of hundreds of thousands of dollars, you, don't think about me giving dowry. It was also her mother's words that chilled Tian Ni's heart. She has always been treated unfairly, but such a big gap makes her angry, why? My brother and I are both your children, why should you treat me like this? 02 After graduating from University, Tian Ni decided to stay and work in other provinces, but she did not want to go home. What are you doing at home? Go home and work for the welfare of that family? But has the family thought about your situation? Tian Ni wanted to be selfish, she just wanted to take good care of herself. Tian Ni's family's living conditions are good, but none of this seems to have anything to do with her, and she doesn't know why her parents treat her like this. But no, never. She did not listen to her parents' advice, but found a family whose family conditions were not as good as theirs. After hearing what Tian Ni said, her mother ordered Tian Ni to break up, saying that if you find such a family, you will suffer in the future. But Tian Ni didn't want to listen to her mother. She knew who was kind to her. She was looking for this object because of poor family conditions, but he was of good character and reliable. She has been in a free relationship with her partner for three years, and she knows each other well. She knows her partner's circle of friends and knows that her partner is a man with a good character. Tian Ni went to see her future in-laws very early. It was the first time she went to someone's house. Tian Ni didn't know what to prepare. As soon as she arrived at the house, she was held by her future mother-in-law and spoke very cordially. She even gave Tian Ni a A big red envelope, 5,000 yuan. She has a good character, will come up with things, is very kind to her, and is careful, especially motivated, very filial, and has plans for the future. Her parents are also very honest and reasonable people. After careful consideration, Tian Ni feels that she has found the right person. . It doesn't matter whether her parents agree or not. Anyway, she moved out of her hukou when she was in college, and she was ready to escape from her family of origin. Tian Ni just notified her parents and got the certificate. She also bought the marriage house with her husband. She also added the betrothal gift money, and some extra savings she had saved over the years. The wedding room is ready and renovated, and it's time for the wedding. The mother threatened Tian Ni that if she didn't give her the dowry money, she wouldn't even attend the wedding, which would make her face look bad. Tian Ni smiled: "Mom, it's up to you, do what you like, anyway, I won't give you a cent of the money. It's better if you don't come? I'll get married directly from the hotel then, and I don't think others will Laugh at me, it doesn't matter, just pretend I don't have parents." At this point, Tian Ni got married, but her parents really didn't come. It doesn't matter if she doesn't come. She is angry with her daughter for tens of thousands of betrothal gifts. She has already seen clearly whether her parents love her, and she has given up. 03 The reason why Tian Ni did this was also because of a particularly excessive thing her parents did before. Four years ago, Tian Ni talked about a boyfriend who was about to get engaged, but at the engagement banquet, her mother felt that the bride price was too little, so she quarreled with the husband's mother on the spot. The mother's battle frightened Tian Ni. How could such a confused mother smash her daughter's engagement banquet. After such a ridiculous thing happened, of course the marriage should not be ended. Tian Ni said that the money should be returned to others when the marriage was cancelled. Don't you think that the money is too little? Since you are so disgusted, don't take other people's money. As a result, the mother did not return the betrothal money, Tian Ni had no choice but to take the money back to others. 50,000 yuan is not much, but for Tian Ni, it is already a sky-high price. These are all kinds of stupid things that Tian Ni's parents did. They didn't want Tian Ni to live a good life. They never thought about Tian Ni's happiness. They only cared about their own interests. All kinds of money in name. What kind of parenting is this, this is simply a debt collector, not even a stranger. What made Tian Ni even more unbearable was that her parents also told her relatives about this, saying why Tian Ni was unfilial and married without giving a penny to her family. Parents don't know how to be ashamed, maybe for a person with wrong views, as long as you harm his interests, you are his enemy. Say what you like, Tian Ni doesn't care anymore. Not all parents will love their children, Tian Ni is superfluous to parents. Parents always say how much Tian Ni spent on them, but with such a tense parent-child relationship, can she spend her parents' money? She spent her own money for the promotion of her major. She went out to work so early and has been self-reliant, and all she spent was her own money. Heartbroken, I already wanted to cut off the relationship anyway. The story of Tian Ni also reminds us: we must have a clear view of right and wrong. If your parents do something wrong, then you must understand it clearly, and don't be kidnapped by your parents' morality. Whether they really care about you, you know, they are probably kidnapping you in the name of your own good. Think clearly and understand that the family of origin is deformed and the three views are not correct, so you must keep a distance from the family of origin. At the same time, you have to stop your parents, don't let them destroy your marriage, hurt your lover. As for the relationship with the parents, it is enough to give a very basic amount of money in the future. How do you treat me, how do I treat you, you never pamper me, how can I treat you kindly? Topic of the day: How did your parents treat you? Welcome to leave a message. - END - ★ Author: YIBAO; emotional original author, writing warm emotional things in this world.

(Responsible editor:Rich young woman)

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