There are these private "connections" between the opposite sex, and sooner or later the relationship will cross the line

time:2023-01-30 05:43:53 author:Girl
There are these private "connections" between the opposite sex, and sooner or later the relationship will cross the line

Text / Ye Feifei yff picture / From the Internet I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional tutor, who writes heartfelt emotional words, hoping to use warm words to bring you some spiritual comfort. Heterosexual relationships are very sensitive and require men and women to maintain a sense of boundaries in their interactions. Otherwise, once there is no sense of proportion behavior, it will be difficult to maintain a normal relationship, and it will only happen sooner or later that it crosses the line. In reality, some people of the opposite sex are particularly irrational. On the surface, they are friends. In fact, they often do some behaviors without boundaries. The relationship has long been ambiguous. Even some middle-aged men and women are like this. They each have a family, but they cross the line, causing great trouble and trouble to both parties. This requires the opposite sex to abide by the principle of communication, not to communicate frequently, and to maintain a distance no matter how good the relationship is. After all, there are these private "connections" between the opposite sex, and sooner or later the relationship will cross the line. I hope men and women will wake up.

First, like to chat at night, entanglement

normal men and women, generally do not chat at night, work all day, Everyone wants to rest, who will disturb others? However, some men and women do not have this kind of awareness, they always like to chat at night, and they are entangled with each other. The two sides are not talking about some ambiguous topics, or they are spying on each other's privacy, and they have already crossed the border. They often chatted until late at night before leaving reluctantly, which was longer than a normal couple chatting. Once the opposite sex has this kind of behavior, it means that the relationship is on the verge of crossing the border, and whenever there is a chance, an intimate relationship will occur. Therefore, when men and women are in a relationship, they must not contact in private like this, so as not to have an ambiguous relationship and bring trouble to each other. Especially women should pay attention, don't chat with the opposite sex at night, don't easily trust each other's words, even if the relationship is good, you must be vigilant. Because, some men have ulterior motives when they chat with women at night. Once you give him a chance, it is easy to be fooled. In itself, a woman's heart is the most sensitive and vulnerable at night. If she believes in a man's sweet words, she will inevitably encounter unkindness. In short, men and women should avoid these behaviors, and don’t get entangled at night. Once you are used to chatting with the opposite sex at this time, you will ignore the people around you, resulting in feelings other than marriage and love.

Second, meet in private, do not know how to avoid suspicion

If you like to meet in private and do not know how to avoid suspicion, the relationship often crosses the line. Such men and women have no sense of proportion, and always use friendship to play ambiguous, the relationship is unclear, and it is easy to breed some kind of affection. The two sides are immersed in it, and on the surface they do not admit that the relationship has turned sour, but it is easy for outsiders to see that this relationship is not normal. For example, two people like to go out for dinner together. If it is due to work, or it happens occasionally, it makes sense. However, once both parties frequently go out to eat or do other things, it becomes extremely abnormal. Just imagine, normal men and women, who would spend all day with other people of the opposite sex, they would never cross the border. Only men and women who are not pure in mind and like to play ambiguous will use all their free time to meet and date. They don't care about other people's eyes, they meet very frequently in private, even if they meet acquaintances, they will deny it and pretend to be friends of the opposite sex. However, this is just a self-delusional statement from both sides, and they are very clear in their hearts that the relationship has crossed the line. In their interactions, they not only speak indiscreetly, but also often cross shoulders and have physical contact, which is the proof that the relationship has crossed the line.

Three, when encountering difficulties, always seek help from the other party

Generally speaking, when a person encounters difficulties, he will definitely find his closest and most trusted person people. However, if there is often such behavior between the opposite sex, it is not very reasonable, and it is easy to cross the line. When you encounter difficulties, instead of looking for the closest person, you look for friends of the opposite sex, which means that the opposite sex is more important than the people around you. Although you do not admit that you have an ambiguous relationship with the other party, but when others know about it, it is inevitable that they will fantasize and cause misunderstandings. Especially after being discovered by the other half, you will definitely have doubts, and you will not believe that you and the other opposite sex are just ordinary friends. My friend Xiaoling met a male colleague at work, and they had a good impression of each other and got along very happily. Therefore, the two often chat together, even after get off work, they will chat endlessly, without any intention of avoiding suspicion. The two are like lovers, they stay together when they have something or nothing, and their relationship is ambiguous. Once, Xiaoling's family encountered difficulties and needed a sum of money. When the male colleague knew about it, he transferred 50,000 to her. In this way, whenever Xiaoling encounters difficulties, instead of looking for a boyfriend, she finds this male colleague to come over. This has happened many times, and finally an intimate relationship occurs accidentally. Therefore, if the opposite sex encounters difficulties, they always ask each other for help, but ignore the lover around them, which shows that the relationship between the two people is very close. If you don't pay attention, you will cross the line. Ye Feifei yff Emotional Message: In conclusion, there are these private "connections" between the opposite sex, and sooner or later the relationship will cross the line. I like to chat at night and get tangled; I meet in private, but I don’t know how to avoid suspicion; I always ask each other for help when encountering difficulties. It is hoped that men and women in reality can attract attention and do not communicate frequently in private, so as not to deteriorate the relationship. Some connections should be broken when they should be broken, and don't rush into entanglement. This is the bottom line that adults should have. In short, no matter how good the relationship is between the opposite sex, it is necessary to maintain a certain boundary and actively refuse to be ambiguous in order to maintain a normal friendship. In this way, the relationship between the two parties will not be affected, so that they can have a happy and stable life. END Author: Ye Feifei yff, focus on creation and sharing in the emotional field, use emotions to communicate your heart and my heart, I hope you and I get to know each other here, please follow me if you like.

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