Men who don't cheat are often like this

time:2022-12-02 09:38:26 source:chloeaktas.com author:Girl
Men who don't cheat are often like this

Hello friend! Our meeting was a reunion after a long absence. Click "Follow" above, we will be friends for life! Text: Shili Illustration: From the Internet "What kind of man won't cheat?" Two days ago, I saw such a question on the Internet. Some people say: "Men get bad when they have money. Only men who don't have money will not cheat? Because without money, he has no chance at all." Someone said: "A man who is ugly will not cheat? There is simply no woman who can like it, so naturally they can’t cheat.” Some people said: “As long as they are men, they will cheat. It’s just that some men are not tempted. If they are actively tempted, they will cheat too.” Although they There are many people who agree with it, but the author has a different opinion. In the author's opinion, it's not that men who don't have money and don't look good will not cheat, because many of those cheating men are men who have no money and don't look good. Not all men cheat, but those who cheat will eventually cheat. Those men who won't cheat, even if they have the wealth and opportunities, they can still stay the same and finally get married. It's just that good things don't go out, and bad things travel thousands of miles. Everyone only pays attention to the deeds of bad men, staring at these men and scolding them, but ignoring the deeds of good men, and few people pay attention. So, what everyone heard was just bad things, and they were all blinded by a leaf. Men who really don't cheat are often like this. Men who don't cheat tend to respect their wives. I have lived in a happy family since I was a child, my parents have been loving for many years, and they are still the same. When I was young, I didn't understand at all, how can there be cheating men in the world. It was not until later when I got a job and bought a car, and after adding the city’s car club, I found out how outrageous those men who cheated were. There are many men who satisfy their wives to go out for excitement, and often the more materially superior men, the less respectful they are. Women, open their mouths and objectify women, and use all kinds of degrading titles. On the contrary, those men with ordinary conditions will basically love their wives and cherish them. It may be because in this era, ordinary people are often treated badly. It is not easy to find a wife, so they cherish them even more. In the group of car friends, people often ask me: "How can you be consistent in marriage, and why are you so single?" They were surprised by my marriage behavior, and I was also very puzzled by their behavior. The author does not understand very much, how can they still have no redness and no guilt after cheating? Maybe this is the way to be different, not conspiracy. In my opinion, being loyal to marriage is just the most basic bottom line of being a human being, and you don't need to do it at all. In their view, it is an intractable problem of the century. In fact, it is only his instinct that a loyal and single-minded person can do these things, and it does not require hard work. The author does not think that single-mindedness is an advantage, but only the bottom line of being a human being. Because the author respects my wife, I will be consistent in marriage. When my wife was willing to marry me without hesitation, I must love her consistently for the rest of my life. A man who will not cheat has a sense of proportion. For a man, if he has no sense of proportion, he will sooner or later enter the army of cheating. Because of his senselessness, he will only fall into all kinds of temptations. A man who is consistent in his marriage knows who to keep his distance and distance with, refuses to be ambiguous, and is consistent in his marriage. They will swear their marriages everywhere and not hide them everywhere. When it comes to the opposite sex, they will always simply reject it directly, instead of politely rejecting it for fear of hurting the other party, and then giving the other party hope. They deeply understand that if they don't hurt the opposite sex, they will hurt their partner, so they will always refuse directly. Some men reject women in ways that seem to have low emotional intelligence, but in fact they are really high emotional intelligence, they are people who really understand love. Because dragging the other party without refusing is the greatest harm to the other party, and such behavior often only harms others. Men who don't cheat often have high divorce costs. Love and marriage are different. For love, all it takes is love, and for marriage, a truly happy and lasting marriage often involves various interests. Whether the other party will betray you or not depends entirely on whether you are irreplaceable to him, and how much the betrayal will cost you. The cost of betrayal of a marriage is not only the gain and loss of money, but also the love and time spent by both parties, the children raised together, the consequences of the career, and the past that they have experienced together are all costs. If only rely on morality to restrain marriage, I am afraid most people will be disappointed. Human beings have an instinctive tendency, that is, the more you invest in a place, the more you care and cherish it. It is also because of these costs and costs that most men can restrain themselves and live their entire lives. It is not because a good man is gifted that he will not cheat all his life, but because a man insists on not cheating in his life, he is a good man. Similarly, it is not because a certain pair of lovers is directly true love that they can last for a lifetime, but because a certain pair of lovers persists for a lifetime, they are true love. To put it bluntly, a boy is always dedicated to the person he loves. Love is not always liking one person, let alone different people. It should be liking the same person again and again, and the same is true for girls. The most intimate relationship between husband and wife should be one that grows and progresses together. Love is equal, and marriage is the right match. Only in such a marriage, a man will not cheat. ——END Topic of the day: "Do you think it's right?"

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