Hefei Marriage and Blind Date Talk: If Your Wife Is Angry With You

time:2023-01-30 04:58:22 source:chloeaktas.com author:Graduate girl
Hefei Marriage and Blind Date Talk: If Your Wife Is Angry With You

Hefei Love Couple Marriage Lesson: If your wife is angry with you (four tricks to get rid of your anger)... Thinking of the sweetness we once had, all the anger disappeared. This is true intimacy, and nothing can sever our love for each other. Remember we used to have a sweet, all disappear in smoke gas. This is truly close, nothing could break our love for each other. Angry fights between husband and wife are common. As the saying goes: the tongue and the teeth will fight is a metaphor for such things. When a husband and wife are angry and quarrel, the husband should first be more tolerant. Not to mention who is right and who is wrong, I believe that men who take the initiative to apologize will generally live a happier life. If you ignore it and take it for granted, the grievances between husband and wife will become deeper and deeper for a long time, and finally it may completely lead to the disintegration of the marriage. But in actual handling, many men encounter things, and after arguing, even an apology can have a small effect, and sometimes it will be even worse. These are all likely reasons why the apology approach goes wrong. Therefore, you must know a little about the methods and techniques of apology to maintain the health and harmony of marriage and love. First, "little angry" apologize immediately, "big angry" apologize again in a few days: "little angry" if you don't apologize immediately , resolve it in the bud, and still hold it blindly, continue to raise the bar with the wife, it will definitely lead to a bigger conflict, or even an outbreak. But "big anger" is different, because it has already erupted, "big anger" you immediately apologize is useless, then the wife's anger is difficult to subside for a while, you might as well be quiet for a few days, wait for her to calm down, It's never too late to apologize. (The pictures and texts are edited according to the network. Please correct me if there is anything wrong.) Second, sometimes you have to work hard, don’t apologize at every turn: You often quarrel with your wife and get angry, but then you apologize, and you apologize at every turn, and this kind of apology will change. It's cheap, and even before you even open your mouth, your wife knows you're going to apologize again, which is not only boring, but may be duplicitous. You might as well hold your breath first, Jinkou just doesn't open, let her think you are going to fight to the end, and the dead pig is not afraid of boiling water. Then you admit your mistake to her unexpectedly, make her think it is the result of her hard work, and feel extra happy inside. At this time, your apology will be successful. 3. Learn to apologize bluntly, and also learn to apologize implicitly: apology can be divided into blunt and explicit apology, and it can also be divided into implicit and implied apology. Sometimes the effect of the latter is better in psychological feelings. For example, make a humorous joke, make a joke, laugh at yourself, and convey the meaning of apology in a subtle way. Or create a situation, express love, play romantic cards, and make your wife emotional, as the so-called bedside quarrel and bedside peace. 4. No "apology" on the principle issue, but a rationale: For the principle issue of right and wrong, the wife can't see the damage that may be caused for a while, or even obsessed, and you have a conflict. At this time, your wife needs you to apologize. She will use this method to prove your love for her and prove that she can be the master of the house. Then you must adhere to the principle and do not apologize. But you still have to be patient with her, be affectionate and reasoned with her, in fact, this is another form of apology to avoid angry quarrels. This is true maintenance and love, I believe she will understand.

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