"I don't want to serve my daughter, you pick me up quickly" Daughter-in-law: I'm sorry, I'm divorced

time:2023-01-30 05:41:15 source:chloeaktas.com author:Divorced women
"I don't want to serve my daughter, you pick me up quickly" Daughter-in-law: I'm sorry, I'm divorced

For a woman, marriage is the second life. Only by marrying the right person can you be happy after marriage. It’s just that a mother-in-law who knows right from wrong and knows how to feel distressed is more fortunate. If the mother-in-law is arrogant and unreasonable, and likes to interfere in the affairs of the young couple, it will be difficult for the marriage to maintain stability. Xiaojuan and Xu Yang met through a blind date, and they had a good impression of each other when they first met. In addition, the two have similar personalities and hobbies, so they always have endless topics to talk about. The first time they met, they decided on a romantic relationship not long after they met. Later, at the urging of their parents, they got married after only three months of dating. From the realization of falling in love and marriage, although it has developed rapidly, Xiaojuan is still full of expectations for the future. Anyway, the relationship can be cultivated in the future. The most important thing is to have something to talk about with the lover. Otherwise, marriage is like living with a partner. It is not as good as a stranger under the same roof, that is the torment. After getting married, Xiaojuan did have a happy time, but with the passage of time, coupled with work pressure and life trivial matters, the novelty began to slowly disappear, and her husband was not as proactive and friendly as before marriage. Enthusiasm, although life was dull, Xiaojuan also began to adapt, until after her sister-in-law got married, her mother-in-law felt too bored in her hometown, so she moved here. The arrival of her mother-in-law also broke the peace of the family. In Xiaojuan's opinion, her mother-in-law is very doting to her sister-in-law, but she is mean to others. Xiaojuan is afraid that the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will not get along well, so she can only try to accommodate her. And obedient, she spent a lot of time and energy on the issue of supporting her mother-in-law. The food and use for her mother-in-law are all good, and she is reluctant to use many things herself, but even so, it is still thankless. Her mother-in-law would scold her every time. She thought that her cooking was not to her taste, her cleaning was not clean enough, and she was too procrastinating. She always felt that her daughter-in-law was not as good as her daughter, and she often called her daughter every three days to say that she was at home. It was a very bad life, and I was angry with my daughter-in-law everywhere. The sister-in-law was immediately dissatisfied when she heard it. She wanted to vent her anger for her mother without saying a word, so she rushed over after get off work. When she saw the leftovers on the dinner table, she directly asked: "That's what you do to my mother." The elderly, do you let her eat leftovers every day? Xiaojuan was particularly aggrieved after hearing this. Her mother-in-law's taste was too picky. No matter what she did, she would be disliked. How could she eat leftovers? The little sister-in-law didn't listen to any explanation, and took her mother-in-law away on the same day. She seemed to be very filial. Her mother-in-law was naturally happy and went with her immediately. Now, he said coldly all day: Why can't you be nice to my mother? She went to my sister's house to retire, and it was spread out that my reputation was unpleasant. Xiaojuan was completely disappointed after hearing this. She tried her best to support her mother-in-law, but in the end, her mother-in-law disliked her, her sister-in-law accused her, and her husband complained. So she brought up divorce. She thought her husband would keep her, but he said, "Let's leave. When you figure it out one day, go and apologize to my mother and bring her back. Let's remarry." At this point, Xiaojuan no longer has any illusions about this relationship. After the divorce, her mother-in-law called and said, "Daughter-in-law, come pick me up, I don't want to stay here anymore, I have to serve you every day. The two of them don't eat as well as yours, and they often play games in the middle of the night. I can't sleep well every day. After hearing this, Xiaojuan only felt that she was self-inflicted, and then said: I'm sorry, I'm already divorced, and I want to find your son in retirement, don't come to me. After I finished speaking, I hung up the phone, and I felt much more relaxed, and the burden on my body seemed to be lightened. Zhang Xiaoxian said: Time can understand love, prove love, and overturn love. Love is beautiful, but you can't love too blindly. You must know that what determines a long-term relationship is never a momentary goodwill and passion, but a person's character and family style, so if you want to get married, you need to be cautious and need Spend more time getting to know each other, and only after weighing the pros and cons can you make the right choice. After entering the marriage, in the face of complex family relations, you can't just choose to be patient, otherwise, you will only build up an image of being bullied and incompetent, and it will also make the other party more unscrupulous. When dealing with justice, you must dare to refuse. Only by clarifying your attitude can you protect your own interests and prevent yourself from being wronged. #marriage##emotional office##emotion#

(Responsible editor:Rich young woman)

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