The Shanghai woman remarried with her one-year-old son. The ex-husband regretted that he had no way to turn back. The current one is the boss

time:2023-01-30 04:46:45 source:chloeaktas.com author:Divorced women
The Shanghai woman remarried with her one-year-old son. The ex-husband regretted that he had no way to turn back. The current one is the boss

I am a native of Shanghai, and my husband is from a rural area in Jiangxi. He has a bunch of brothers and sisters, and he is the only one who went to college. After he stayed in Shanghai to work, it was impossible for him to afford a house in Shanghai. So he was lucky when he met me, because my family gave me a wedding room, and then his family only spent 100,000 yuan for decoration. My husband was admitted to Shanghai Fudan University with excellent grades in 2012. After graduating from the university in 2016, he was recruited by a foreign company to Moxia, and he successfully settled in Shanghai as a high-level talent introduction. We met through a blind date. As soon as we met, our eyes met, and as soon as we chatted, we felt that the three views were quite compatible, and we slowly started dating. A year later, he entered the palace of marriage. The next year I gave birth to a son. It can be said that from going to school to finding a job to getting married to having children, he did not let his parents worry about it. After giving birth, my mother-in-law came to take care of the confinement child. I didn’t expect her hygiene habits to be unbearable. She only washed the cabbage once, and the dishes were not clean. She chewed it with her mouth and fed it. My son, I don't know what to say about her. She had to tell her through her husband to tell her not to chew things, it was unhygienic to feed the child. My mother-in-law said that I despised her. From the first day she arrived in Shanghai, she was neither left nor right, and she felt dirty even holding a grandson. My parents invited her to dinner, and she also said that my parents were like sworn sovereignty, they had a sense of superiority in the big city, they regarded her as an old countryman, looked down on her, and the things she brought, local specialties, etc., we I don't like to eat either, so I threw it in the storage room. In less than a month, my mother-in-law was pissed off by me. Then it was my mother who came to help me with the baby. My husband was sad about this for a long time, but he didn't say anything. Unexpectedly, the mother-in-law had just left for a month, and the father-in-law brought his brother here again. They came to Shanghai Zhongshan Hospital to see a doctor. His brother is mentally ill. His brother is 35 years old, and he has never been able to find a wife. Later, he finally introduced one, costing the family more than 100,000 yuan. As a result, he was abandoned by the girl, and his brother became mentally ill. His father took him to see a doctor. His brother didn't seem to have any major problems, but his father was very helpless and anxious. I asked my husband what happened to his brother? The husband said that he was stimulated, often staying up all night and talking to himself, maybe he had a mild mental illness. In fact, his brother's academic performance in high school was also very good, and he was at the top of the class. But after the college entrance examination, he was admitted to Qingdao University of Technology, but he didn't go there because he had no money. At that time, I was a little unhappy and unhappy, and often ran to the back mountain alone to cry. Later, he went to Shenzhen to work and talk to his girlfriend, and they all got engaged. Because the woman thought the bride price was too low, the conversation broke down again. Since then, his brother has become dementia, often talking to himself, and sometimes one will talk to himself. Shivering, eyes rolling. His dad just hoped that his brother could be an ordinary, healthy person who could live a normal life. I looked at the white-haired father-in-law, who was inconvenient to move and had to wait on his son. I really felt embarrassed. In fact, it seems trivial to become a talent or not. The key is to have a good body. The body is one, and the rest are zero. Without the oneness of the body, everyone else is useless. Back then, we borrowed 50,000 yuan to give to his brother, but maybe it was too little at that time, and no one said anything about it. We gave him an expert number the next day. I also packaged 10,000 yuan to my father-in-law. Later, my father-in-law and his brother lived in my house for more than half a month. Originally thought he was going to be hospitalized, but the doctor said that his condition was not serious, and there were not enough beds in the hospital, so they went back. Having said that, every marriage has its challenges. In order to see his brother, he often took the two of them to the hospital. When they returned, my husband got on with a female doctor. This female doctor is his old classmate and lover. They were in love before, but they broke up for some reason? This time, in order to see his brother's doctor, I contacted him again. Facing the betrayal of my beloved, my heart hurts so much, and it's the kind of pain that makes people unable to hold on, can't breathe, I squatted on the ground clutching my chest. In the face of my wholehearted efforts, the house was basically bought for me by my mother's family. His family only spent 100,000 yuan for decoration. When giving birth, my mother accompanies me to the pregnancy check-up, caesarean section and so on. It's my family that handles these things. He really lived up to my sincerity and dedication. Holding good hopes, now all of them have been slapped in the face, making me, a simple person, no longer simple. I thought about it for a long time, no matter what, something has happened and I have to face it. He cried all kinds of tears, apologized, and asked me to forgive. I was always immersed in painful emotions. I couldn't make out with him. When I made out, I would feel physically disgusted and think he was dirty. Care about, entanglement, hatred, all kinds of emotions can not be relieved, I want to find out some things, in the end who will take the initiative? But he just didn't tell me. Knowing that I have endured too much in my heart, there is no way to forgive him at all. Now there is only one way to go, and my poor child is only two months old. Divorce has been dragging on for a long time, almost a year, making everyone very miserable. In the end, he saw that it was irreversible, so he had to face the reality. After the divorce, I sent him the 100,000 yuan that he bought a house for his family, and the children belonged to me, and agreed that he would give me 2,000 yuan per month as child support. After half a year, I started a blind date. I don't want my child to have no father. I have blind dated four men, all of them are tall, the shortest is 1.78 meters, and the tallest is 1.92 meters, because I like tall men. Then I chose a boss. Started from scratch, and now has a net worth of tens of millions, he often has to run to Beijing, Shenzhen, and Shanghai to deal with company affairs. He is also divorced and has a son with his ex-wife. We got married soon, and then he brought his son over too. Although it belonged to his ex-wife, the ex-wife's situation was not very good. With my consent, he also brought his son to my house. We are doing well now, we are a family of five, me, my husband, my mother and two children. Living in Shanghai is quite convenient. Later I heard that my ex-husband was married to the cheating partner, the female doctor. For the sake of the children, we still have some contacts from time to time. Sometimes my ex-husband likes to come to my house for dinner because my current husband often goes on business trips. He said that the dishes I made are delicious. It may be that he often comes to eat, and he often buys me things and spends money on me. I don't even know what his mentality is. He may have felt guilt. His family was not in good condition. He even gave me the money. I didn't want it from him, but he said it was for the child, so I had to accept it. Regardless, divorce always complicates relationships. I don't know what my psychology is. My ex-husband always comes to my house to eat and drink, and I have no objection. But every time he came, he came when the ex-husband's child was not at home, because the child would be picked up by his mother every Saturday and Sunday. My ex-husband took this opportunity to come. My current house is a large flat-floor house, and the decoration specifications are quite high-end. My own 90-square-meter house has always been empty there, and I am reluctant to rent it out. I am afraid that the rental will be ruined by others. What's strange to me is that my ex-husband didn't do anything at home before, he didn't care about taking care of the children and cleaning up the housework. When he got home, he took his laptop and said he would work overtime. Now, sometimes I come to see my children on Saturdays and Sundays, stay at home for dinner, help with some errands, and sometimes take my children out to play together, but now I feel that my relationship is better than before. It seems that my ex-husband still has the idea of ​​remarrying, but he was rejected by me, and I don't want to go back. I can't forgive him either. Because I don't have any thoughts about him now, but I feel a lot more comfortable, and I won't care about his cheating anymore. My current husband makes more money than he does. He has nothing to lose to him. He has not made mistakes. Why should I abandon him? I have no reason!

(Responsible editor:A solitary woman)

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