"Don't make a fool of yourself" The sister-in-law was unreasonably shielded by her mother-in-law for stealing a bag, and her daughter-in-law called her relatives to judge in public

time:2023-01-30 06:59:02 source:chloeaktas.com author:Rich young woman
"Don't make a fool of yourself" The sister-in-law was unreasonably shielded by her mother-in-law for stealing a bag, and her daughter-in-law called her relatives to judge in public

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When a woman gets married, she will inevitably face conflicts between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and aunt-in-law. These contradictions are often unavoidable. In order to avoid these conflicts, many women will choose to keep giving in and forbearance. They thought that by doing so, all conflicts could be avoided. But if she really did this, she would find that her concessions and forbearance could not avoid conflicts. It will only allow these contradictions to accumulate deeper and deeper in the dark, and finally, reach a critical point and explode in an instant. Young girls are more naive and tend to think too well of people. They won't understand that some people's favorite thing is to watch people serve dishes. The more forbearance a person is, the more they will go too far.

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Qiao Qian (pseudonym) encountered this kind of unreasonable mother-in-law and sister-in-law. Although she had heard others talk about how difficult the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and aunt and sister-in-law was before her marriage, she didn't take it to heart. Because her mother got along very well with her grandmother and aunt. Grandma is a kind old man who is very kind to the family. She is an old lady who will think about her family. Therefore, the younger generation in the family likes her. Aunt is also a good and reasonable person. She is very kind to several nephews and nieces in the family. Every time she is paid, she will buy them gifts. Although it is not valuables, it is also her heart. Such an aunt is definitely likable, and her aunt respects her sister-in-law very much. She will never do anything inappropriate. She will also lend a hand to help when something happens at home. Because she had seen this way of getting along, she thought that the contradiction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and aunt and sister-in-law was a fantasy, but in fact there were not so many contradictions at all. But until she got married, she didn't know that these contradictions existed in reality. She really wanted to get along well with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law. After all, they became a family, and it would not look good if there were conflicts. But many things are not how she wants to be. Qiao Qian couldn't see her sister-in-law's bad habits, but for the sake of family harmony, she could only pretend to be invisible. Sometimes, the sister-in-law came to the house to steal, and she also chose to forbear. If this is her own sister, she will definitely catch someone and discipline them well. But this is a sister-in-law, and her preaching is likely to be thankless, and may even lead to family conflicts. Therefore, she endured again and again, pretending not to see it again and again. But later, the little sister-in-law became more and more courageous. Before, I just took some lipstick and eye cream, but later it developed into taking her clothes. Qiao Qian couldn't bear it anymore, so she told her husband and mother-in-law about it. She didn't say anything bad about the sister-in-law, but just said it truthfully. How to deal with it is their business. Qiao Qian's husband gave his sister some verbal education, but her mother-in-law accused Qiao Qian instead, saying that Qiao Qian had nothing to do and that she had to care about her sister-in-law over such trivial matters, and she also said that she was deliberately provoking her brother and sister. feelings between. These words directly confused Qiao Qian. It was obviously the little sister-in-law who did the wrong thing, but when it came to her mother-in-law's mouth, it was her fault. In the face of her mother-in-law's accusations, Qiao Qian wanted to have a good theory, but thought that if she really talked back, maybe the matter would become a big problem, and it was estimated that the conflict would have to escalate. Thinking of this, she didn't say anything. When her mother-in-law saw that she was silent, she felt that she was more reasonable, and she became more and more arrogant, and degraded her to nothing. And the sister-in-law actually felt that she was right, it was her sister-in-law who was wrong. After that, the little sister-in-law became even more reckless. Later, she stole her big-name bag while she was away. She bought the bag with a lot of money and year-end bonus. Usually, she was reluctant to carry it out by herself, but my sister-in-law stole the bag like that. She went to ask her directly, and the sister-in-law even admitted it, with the appearance of a dead pig not afraid of boiling water. Qiao Qian quarreled with her on the spot. After the mother-in-law heard the news, she ran out and scolded Qiao Qian. She was disgusted inside and out of her words. She also said that she was a troublemaker. The originally good home became like this because of her. Smoky. Qiao Qian really couldn't take it anymore this time, and she also quarreled with her mother-in-law. When her mother-in-law saw that her voice was getting louder and louder, she wanted to stop her. The mother-in-law is not unreasonable at all, and she is unreasonable and protective of the sister-in-law. Isn't it a shame that the family can't be publicized? She wants to make it known to everyone, and she has to find all her relatives and let them judge in public. Anyway, it's not her fault, and it's not her that is embarrassing. Didn't the mother-in-law think that the little sister-in-law was right, so let them be the focus, and let a group of relatives praise her. Let's see how they look up in the future. Qiao Qian was also angry this time, and sent a message directly to the relatives group of her husband's family, asking everyone to come. After a while, everyone who had time came. Everyone thought something big had happened. But when I got here, I realized it was such a scandal. These relatives also felt shameless. After all, the people who did this kind of thing were their juniors, they all had the same surname, and they were close relatives, which made them feel very shameless. As a result, it was not pleasant to speak one by one, but these accusations were not directed at Qiao Qian, but at Qiao Qian's mother-in-law and sister-in-law. Now the two of them can't stand it anymore. This is simply a public execution, and they won't be able to raise their heads in front of their relatives in the future. After this time, Qiao Qian's sister-in-law no longer dared to touch Qiao Qian's things, and Qiao Qian's mother-in-law no longer dared to treat Qiao Qian at will. Knowing that Qiao Qian was not easy to mess with, she restrained her temper. After this incident, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law and sister-in-law became much more harmonious, at least on the surface. But for Qiao Qian, being able to maintain the apparent peace is already very satisfying. After this time, Qiao Qian also knew how to get along with her mother-in-law and sister-in-law. If you exchange your sincerity for your sincerity, you don't want to, as long as you make them feel that they are not easy to mess with. She will do what she should do, and don't ask her to contribute to what she should not do. After thinking about this, her life was much easier. From this story, we can understand two truths.

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I. Faced with the harassment of their mother-in-law and sister-in-law, women must not choose to be forbearing. Forbearance will only fuel their arrogance and make them more unscrupulous. Only by being strong from the beginning and using effective means can they have a long memory. Dare to act unreasonably. When women are not married, they think that only by treating each other sincerely can they get equal treatment from their in-laws. This is true, but only if you meet someone who is equally sincere. But in real life, it is difficult to meet such a family member. Therefore, women can't be too honest, and they can't be too sincere. If people are nice to you, you should be nice to them. If they are looking for something for you from the beginning, then you don't have to be polite. Too many worries. If you worry too much, you can only be wronged. Therefore, in the face of the harassment of mother-in-law and sister-in-law, women must not choose to forbearance. Forbearance will only fuel their arrogance and make them more unscrupulous. Only by being strong from the beginning and using effective means can they have a long memory. , do not dare to act rudely.

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II. If you want a harmonious family, the mother-in-law must teach her daughter well, and don’t blindly let the daughter-in-law endure and let the daughter-in-law back down. Doing so will only exacerbate family conflicts, and even make the daughter-in-law divorced from them, which is obviously not worth the loss. . Many people become mother-in-law, but do not know how to handle the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and some people are even hostile to their daughter-in-law from the very beginning. Therefore, they always treat their daughter-in-law with a critical attitude. They can't even teach their daughters well. When their daughters do something wrong and offend their daughters-in-law, they don't think about teaching their daughters and letting them remember, but how to make their daughters-in-law bow their heads and settle down. The result of this is often a family war. Therefore, if you want a harmonious family, the mother-in-law must teach her daughter well, and don’t blindly let her daughter-in-law endure and make concessions. Doing so will only aggravate family conflicts and even make her daughter-in-law divorced from them. More than worth the loss. Text/Fenghua

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