From Tang Jing to Gu Nian: Divorced woman, your name is not weak

time:2022-10-02 04:07:04 source:chloeaktas.com author:Single woman
From Tang Jing to Gu Nian: Divorced woman, your name is not weak

one. "War of the Roses" is getting more and more exciting, please don't underestimate the Jedi counterattack of divorced women. If she does lose the whole world, she has only one and only herself. Fighting for custody of their children is something every responsible parent will spare no effort to do. In the end, the daughter's reversal in court completed the lore. Looking at Gu Nian, who was crying so hard, it was not a script of "a woman is weak, but a mother is strong". In this era of Muqiang, no one wants to be weak. However, "divorce" is a deduction item. If you want to be "strong", it takes ten times more effort than a woman who is not divorced. two. From Yuan Quan's Gu Nian, I can't help thinking of Tang Jing in "The First Half of My Life". However, Tang Jing is a proper career woman. In Yi Shu's novel "The First Half of My Life", he used Luo Zijun's tone to say these words: "I spend the first half of my life getting married and having children, while Tang Jing spends my time struggling to start a business, and then I switch the second half of my life to suit each other. Appropriate." Although, there is no clear dividing line between the first half of life and the second half of life. It can't just be arbitrarily cut from the age, but for Luo Zijun - the first half of his life is to be a full-time wife at home, and the second half of his life is to return to the workplace after divorce. To be honest, the reemployment of this full-time wife is too difficult. It's not just Gu Nian's performance. He doesn't use office aids and is in a hurry at work. Three. On the other hand, it is also a divorced full-time wife Luo Zijun. Why is the TV series "The First Half of My Life" rated higher? It more truly reflects the shocking step by step of a divorced woman and walking out of her family. In the workplace, Luo Zijun's real independence is definitely not the plot of the previous episodes, right? What about Gu Nian? Even if it is really powerful, it is not enough to kill the Quartet in a single return to the workplace. That's not a divorced woman, that's a divorced superwoman. Powerful, step by step. One step to the sky? Please do not doubt the IQ of the audience. No matter how much men can help, this adaptation process cannot be neglected, and this transitional stage is a reasonable and reasonable existence. Four. But it is a pity that many full-time wives in "War of the Roses" also face the test of divorce. For example, the husband and wife have no feelings; the husband has a mistress outside. There is only Gu Nian, then divorce without hesitation. More people dare not step out of their own comfort zone, and are reluctant to give up the aura of "a certain wife" that is too beautiful to be real. Therefore, they can only be reduced to the weak in life. In other words, they voluntarily gave up the opportunity to upgrade and transform themselves. At that step, they couldn't take it. To borrow Lu Xun's words: "Tragedy has two meanings: one is that beautiful things are destroyed; the other is that when externally imposed misery on you, you used your own tragic character to realize the misery." For such full-time wives, they Live yourself as a tragedy. Wu. Gu Nian was originally a high-caliber student in the law department, and the cruel reality was like a slap in the face, which made her suddenly sober: "I got married when it was time to fall in love, and when it was time to start a business, I returned to the family. Then when it was time to have fun with the family , formatted the hard drive and restarted." No, this is not possible. There is no right or wrong in life. "Sometimes God will make a joke with you, in fact, it is to give you the opportunity to choose a new life." Divorce is the first step, and then it is necessary to walk out of the family step by step. , Return to the workplace one step at a time. END. It's never too late to start over, but it must not be easy. (Text/Piao Yutong) Divorce is not a heinous thing, the key is to learn to accept change and not be defeated by reality. From Luo Zijun to Gu Nian, they all tell you very well: divorced women can also be strong! Disclaimer: All the above pictures are from the Internet, and the copyright belongs to the original author. If there is any infringement of your original copyright, please let me know, and I will delete the relevant content as soon as possible.

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